So, I’ve been bonding Sybil and Sirius for quite some time now. In the beginning, he groomed her and all was great. When they moved to the shared space, she was still territorial. So I took a break and restarted. Their cages are next to each other and there is no nipping through the bars but there is grooming. Now, she grooms him but he won’t groom back. I put them in a pen for their bonding sessions and they start off sharing a plate of veggies and then she grooms him. He groomed her back once, when he thought I wasn’t looking. But whenever I’m in there, he will let her groom him for a few seconds then run away. She doesn’t chase him or anything. This continues the whole bonding session. I don’t know if I should move them to the shared play area again. Today she did a binky while they were in there so I’m confused.
In my opinion, I think he is scared of her or just indifferent to her.