At 10 weeks does she NEED her nails clipped? And bunnies don’t need to be bathed, either – they’re like cats that way.
Sounds like all you’ve done so far is to make her fear you picking her up.
Try having her sit in your lap (while you sit on the floor.) Lure her with treats and slowly and gently pet her. Do this for many days to rebuild trust. Then AFTER she feels comfortable being petted on your lap, pat her feet, massage her toes, just get her used to having her feet touched. Practice picking up a foot and see if she’ll let you just hold it for a few seconds. Keep this up and try clipping one nail a day. After a while this should desensitize her. But it WILL take weeks and you must have patience.. AND LOTS OF TREATS!
The other thing is to just put her into a carrier and take her to the vet or pet store where they can be ” the bad guy” and clip them for you. They have so much practice it usually takes them less than 3 minutes! Then take her home and spoil her. 