Since your rabbit is very young, I thought I should tell you that the subject of intentionally breeding rabbits is strictly prohibited in this forum. We recommend that a pair of rabbits be spayed/neutered before bonding is attempted. This helps the problem of rabbit overpopulation. Also, unaltered rabbits would be more hormonal and therefore more likely to fight or injure each other. You should visit the “Bonding” section of the forums if you’d like to learn more about the struggle of bonding the comparatively tame altered rabbits.
Mini lops are a medium breed rabbit and adults usually weigh between 4 and 6 lbs. in adulthood. It is too early to tell if your rabbit is overweight. I don’t have experience with rabbits of his age, but 2 lbs. at 2.5 months old seems normal to me.
You do not need to worry about the size of the doe. As far as I know, size is not an issue in bonding. It has no effect on who is dominant in the relationship. It does not affect the likelihood of a successful bond.