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Hey guys! I’m still here, just lurking around. Haven’t had to much exciting going on. Gracie is still hanging in there. She has her good days and bad, for now more good days than bad. One day she’ll be dragging her feet more than normal (she “walks” pretty fast on her front legs though if only for a little bit from her arthritis) and other days she’ll be hopping around (one day she even jumped into the air, I’ve never seen her do that before!)
I’m starting to head into my third trimester yay and ah at the same time lol! The baby shower is coming up soon too. We have our new furniture and I even found a great deal on a walk through baby gate at a garage sale! It’s so nice not to try to climb over it (esp. when you can’t lift your leg as high anymore). I still climb over the other gate into our bedroom but I don’t get in our room that much when they’re out anyways.
So anyways, there was an article on Yahoo about mistakes new parents make with pets. Of course it only talked about dogs and cats and not rabbits (Whaaaaat?!
). I didn’t think there’s really anything we can do to prepare our 3 bunnies but I thought I’d ask just in case. They were never allowed to go into the spare room/now baby’s room before and won’t be allowed to go in it now, so the changes in their with the new furniture don’t affect them.
I’m wondering how Sandy will cope with a new baby wanting attention because she seems to always want attention when she’s out or if she hasn’t been let out. I’m sure Archie will be ok (he may thump at the sound of crying) and Gracie should be ok too. I think I may put down a small dust buster so I can vacuum up Gracie’s poo when she’s out so the floor is always clean. Someone even asked me if I was still keeping them once the baby arrives….I was a little offended by that statement but I knew they didn’t mean to be cruel. ![]()
So you guys have any advice for preparing before and after the baby arrives?
Do you know anyone with a baby? Maybe they could visit and you could see how the buns react.
Maybe put an article of clothing the baby wore into their pen for them to get used to. Newborns don’t scream as loud as say, toddlers, so your bunnies will have time to get used to the sliding scale of child noise
Same with other pets, try to give as much attention as you can, but you are going to be exhausted for a little bit there, so try not to stress about it ok? It’ll be fine I’m sure!
no advice but wanted to say…. CONGRATS!!!! very exciting for you and yours =)
i think it will be fun to see how they react to a new little creature. i think buns tend to like things that are lower to the ground. so that’s something isn’t it? ![]()
Congrats! It’s coming up so fast now 🙂
I think it all depends on the bunny. Otto, for example, would probably completely ignore a baby and run away from a mobile one. Hannah would be more curious, so we’d have to make sure she didn’t jump right into our laps while we were holding a newborn. Since Sandy likes attention so much, she might we trying to get right in there while you’re taking care of the baby, so doing baby care behind a baby gate might be necessary.
Obsessively cleaning up the floor is probably more important with a mobile baby, but now’s a good time to start!
Thanks guys!
LBJ, we know someone that has a baby and young kids but they’re parenting is completely different from what we would do…aka they’re kids run around a lot and are very energetic and would probaby scare the bunnies
I agree Elrohwen, I think it’ll be different for each of them. I’m still surprised that Gracie hasn’t been sitting by the gate waiting for the baby like she would do when she heard us talking about a new foster bunny being in that room lol! She did sit by the end of the cage and stared at my mom and I when we were putting clothes in the drawers (the baby’s room is across the hall from their room and I can see Archie & Gracie’s cage from there).
I think Sandy might go two ways, she’ll either bond with the baby or get jealous. She’ll have to get used to not having as much attention at first.
I imagine Archie crawling under the play pen in the living room and nudging the bottom (hopefully not trying to eat the netting!). Gracie sitting in the corner not wanting to be bothered and Sandy nudging me for attention or playing with the toys
It’ll be interesting, that’s for sure! And lots of cute baby/bunny pictures. I just hope Gracie keeps up the good health, we haven’t had to bathe her in awhile *knocks on wood*
Your comment about getting jealous reminded me of my parents’ dog when I was born. He was attached to my mom at the hip, so they were worried he would be jealous of me. In fact, he did just the opposite and absolutely adored me. He would patrol around my stroller on walks and sleep under my crib. It’s too bad he passed when I was 1.5 years old so I don’t remember him.
ahhhh… sweet story elrohwen
animals can be so amazing <3
My mom always said that he was reincarnated in one of our next dogs. When I was little they had a male and female schnauzer (the male was the one who was so protective) and when they had both passed we got two more schnauzers (I was about 6). My mom always said that our new boy dog acted exactly like her old one, so I like to think that I got to experience his personality a little bit 🙂
Aw that’s so sweet Elrohwen! I was freaking out a little (thinking about how close Jan. is and how I’m not ready for this big change) today and I think Gracie knew it too. I let them out so I could maybe be distracted and she was following me into the kitchen and I sat down with her in the hall and she just sat there and let me pet her. She didn’t leave me until I had calmed down. ![]()
Love Gracie! She’s a special girl.
Nice to hear from you Ski!
I’m happy to hear you are travelling along well.
I love that you’re thinking about this. It just shows how much your bunnies are your family to you & your husband. Almost like preparing siblings for a new baby heheh.
As you know, buns like routine and rely on that for their sense of security. So I think trying to stick to that as much as possible will help. It’s one area you can be in control of. Easier said then done though! You are going to be tired. Is hubby taking time off when the baby arrives?
If you have offers from anyone (Like Mum or a good friend) to come and stay in those first weeks, this might help a lot. It’s always nice for the support while you find your feet with the baby’s routine but also, they might be able to take on duties for the rabbits so their routine is not overly disrupted. It’s one of those things… it’s nice to have that time for just you, your husband and the baby but if there is someone who can be there for support but not intruding on your privacy (or taking over) then that would probably be a big help.
I hope this final trimester goes smoothly and the nerves settle.
So great to hear Gracie has been having lots of good days too!
Congratulations! The only thing I can think of is be sure to still pay attention to the bunnies, of course you will have your hands full, I’ve seen two different families basically neglect their dogs (no more walks/attention) and say the only reasons they’re keeping them is for the kids.
Thanks Jersey! Of course I always considered them my “kids”
Yes us too, Gracie was a little touch and go for a while. We took her to the vet to get cleaned up and she looked great afterwards so I asked when they used on her and I bought the shampoo (Universal Medicated Shampoo, only sold at the vets). I’ve only had to use it once so far but I think she may need a bath pretty soon. Gracie will always have problems with her arthritis but we’ve all learned to adjust to it. She doesn’t always know she makes cecals but usually I’m around when she does and I can smell it and I turn her around for her to see. She did get some on her leg today but I squated down and cleaned her up. I’m pretty stubborn and don’t let my baby bump get in the way of me doing stuff
I could be in the middle of labor and I’d probably still bend down to clean her up or take care of her ![]()
Yup, my husband is probably going to be taking a week off (as long as the baby is healthy). My mom lives about 15 min. away from us so I’m sure she’ll be over a lot to help out with the baby. The only thing is, is that at the end of my first rabbit’s life she started developing allergies for some strange reason. Her throat closes up and she starts coughing if she’s around the rabbits to much but if I shut their door she’ll be ok. She bought a few allergy medicines to try out when she’s over. So hopefully something works. And we will probably have bunch of help if we need it too.
The first few weeks or month might be a little rough with them until we figure out a good routine but they’ll still get out time…we’ll have to since they start getting fussy if they don’t get out for awhile, esp. Sandy!
Thanks bunnyfriend! I’m sure it’ll be one of us taking care of the baby the other taking care of the bunnies…I can handle bunny poo, not sure about baby poo lol! I cannot stand it when people neglect or get rid of their pets just because they have a baby. If they already had a child and was having a baby they would adjust and not kick the older child out. ![]()
Hahaha ;P Yeah I agree!
I have a friend who lives in Chicago. Her boy is now 3 I believe. She was a bit worried about her rabbit and her husband’s cat in regards to the coming baby. Don’t know about the cat. He basically co-exists with the rest and the bunny is the definite boss. lol The most the bunny did was claim all the baby stuff – clothes, toys, furniture. He particularly liked hanging out on the shelf under the changing table and hanging out in the baby swing. He was a bit surprised when he went to hop into the swing and found a baby in it. LOL He never did anything to her son, etc.
So trust that you know your babies.
I would allow them to explore the baby room if you feel comfortable. I just know with Lolli – Eddie especially – nothing was more fascinating than anywhere they couldn’t be in. It was usually just less troublesome to let them check out my new clothes, any plastic bags, any medication bottles, etc. than to have them constantly all over me cause they thought they were getting something. And then like others have mentioned – keep the routine as close to normal as possible and give extra attention if possible. Even if it’s just sitting on the floor, hanging out for a bit.
Posted By Michelle&Lolli on 10/20/2011 09:40 PM
I have a friend who lives in Chicago. Her boy is now 3 I believe. She was a bit worried about her rabbit and her husband’s cat in regards to the coming baby. Don’t know about the cat. He basically co-exists with the rest and the bunny is the definite boss. lol The most the bunny did was claim all the baby stuff – clothes, toys, furniture. He particularly liked hanging out on the shelf under the changing table and hanging out in the baby swing. He was a bit surprised when he went to hop into the swing and found a baby in it. LOL He never did anything to her son, etc.So trust that you know your babies.
I would allow them to explore the baby room if you feel comfortable. I just know with Lolli – Eddie especially – nothing was more fascinating than anywhere they couldn’t be in. It was usually just less troublesome to let them check out my new clothes, any plastic bags, any medication bottles, etc. than to have them constantly all over me cause they thought they were getting something. And then like others have mentioned – keep the routine as close to normal as possible and give extra attention if possible. Even if it’s just sitting on the floor, hanging out for a bit.
Sandy actually followed me into the baby’s room last night. She seemed a bit scared but was interested. I didn’t let her go to far and got her out. She tends to try to chew on things sometimes and I didn’t want her chewing on the brand new furniture
Unfortunately Gracie and Archie won’t be allowed in the room. With Gracie’s arthritis she pees (mostly in her cage) and poos and doesn’t know it most of the time. So I didn’t want her to get in the room. And once Archie goes in a room, he’ll try to figure out how to get back in here. But they don’t seem interested in going in there anyways. But that could change once the baby’s in there. I try to hang out with them as much as possible. Sandy is the one that wants the most attention….I just posted in the Behavior section about her latest thing with her littler box.
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