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    • kamdynandsunshinesmom
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        I don’t know if anyone remembers I posted last week a girl I work with adopted a rabbit and the pet store told them it was a female and it turned out to be a male. I came into work today and she told me her daughter doesn’t play with the rabbit because it is not a female. I am heart broken about this and I don’t know how to give them advice. I do give some advice and I don’t want her to be affended. I am friends with her daughter on facebook but her mother checks out all her messages she gets on facebook. I thought of telling her mother I would be happy to take the rabbit. I don’t have the money to take care of a 3rd rabbit. I have 2 rabbits and 1 is disabled and requires alot of care and money with medicine and vet care. I want to help her daughter out and make her realize that it is ok and she should still love the rabbit but I don’t know how?


      • Stickerbunny
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          If the rabbit gets no attention then suggest that they rehome it and maybe get a pet that her daughter will like – honestly if such a minor thing bothers her daughter and she doesn’t do anything to dissuade that attitude in her kid, I wouldn’t suggest another rabbit, since what if it scratches her? Or attitude changes? Maybe something small like a gerbil, which is easier to care for.


        • Kokaneeandkahlua
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            DItto-I’d suggest a rehome. Kids should not have rabbits anyways, and perhap you could take the bunny as a foster and rehome? Keep us posted-so sad.


          • jerseygirl
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              It is just so…..silly!

              Do not feel obliged to take on the rabbit. Maybe the daughter is still adjusting to knowing her rabbit is a girl. If the mom brings it up I’d go with something like: “you know, I have both a male and a female and they both enjoy interaction with me and play. Their gender makes no difference.”

              I really don’t like the idea of encouraging they give up the rabbit. I do encourage they commit & improve the situation though.

              One of the most lame excuses I came across of someone selling their rabbit was “it’s not the colour I wanted”. Um, how did you not see it’s colour before you got it?


            • LittlePuffyTail
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                I think that’s awful. Who cares if it’s not a girl?


              • kamdynandsunshinesmom
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                  Thanks everyone I think i might send the girl a message on face book saying her are toys that you can play with your rabbit and maybe send pictures of my rabbits and tell her how much I love my rabbits. thanks for all the good advice. I dont think she should give the rabbit up either. She needs to make the commitment and this rabbit has got attached to them.


                • Beka27
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                    I think there’s a bigger lesson here that needs to be taught. Differences between people (and animals) don’t matter. Would this mother allow her daughter to say “I don’t want to play with that little girl because she’s… whatever race.” I know it’s entirely possible that the mother WOULD encourage that, that’s just how some people are… but the lesson is there. I would talk to the mother and ask her to speak with her daughter about discrimination. How would the daughter feel if a friend at school said, “I don’t want to play with you because your dress is purple and I don’t like purple.” She can simplify it in terms the daughter will understand.


                  • kamdynandsunshinesmom
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                      I wanted to tell her daughter when your mother was pregnant with you the ultrasound said it was a little boy when you were born you turned out to be a girl and the ultrasound was wrong. Did your mother abandoned you because she wanted a boy and you were a girl. Thanks I did email the girl and show her pictures of my buns and how much I love them know matter what they are and toys and games she can play with her rabbit. I am hoping that helps if that doesn’t I am going to talk to her mom.

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