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- 09/17/2011 at 7:48 PM
  kamdynandsunshinesmom
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  I am just really in a bad mood tonight and really need to vent and since I can’t vent to nobody I will vent here. My sister gets on myy nerves all the time I live with my mom and she doesn’t live here thank god. When she does come home I can’t stand it because she is always picking on me because I own rabbits and saying the whole house stinks and I can’t smell it because I am use to it. Then she claims that everything in her room has hay and fur all over it. I never step foot in her room and neither do my rabbits. She pulled out a cotton ball from a ziploc bag in her room and said it was covered in fur. She is constantly telling me I need to get a life and do something else with my time. No matter who she meets she tells them that I am a crazy rabbit lady. My one female rabbit has bitten her in the past. So she can’t stand her. I am glad my rabbit bit her now wonder I would bite someone who said mean things about me and my mom to. She is just so annoying. Then other people crack me up. I do live with my mom and I do help my mom out. I am not a free loader and don’t stuff from other people. I take care of my rabbits by myself and don’t require any help from anyone to support them. People I work with think that i don’t need to work because I don’t have anyone to take care off. I would love to tell them I have rabbits to take care of and yes they are like my babies. One of my rabbits is disabled and I have spent in the last year over $1,000 in cost just to take care of him so yes I do need to work and I do have someone to take care of my 2 rabbits. People just crack me up they think animals aren’t part of the family and like they don’t matter. I just really needed to vent. Since nobody but people on here would understand me. Thanks for letting me vent
- 09/18/2011 at 1:48 AM
  Bones
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  I can relate to that. My sister hates my animals and when she moved back in after divorcing her husband she told me that I needed to get rid of my animals because it is unsanitary to have animals in the house 😮 My dad is always saying that my animals make the whole house smell bad when me, my mom and my brother can’t smell anything.
- 09/18/2011 at 5:20 AM
  kamdynandsunshinesmom
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  Nobody else can smell it but my sister.
- 09/18/2011 at 10:43 AM
  jerseygirl
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  I was going to ask that, if anyone else comments about the smell. Your mum or visitors etc. It could be the rabbits are the topic your sister knows will get a rise out of you. Why she wants to bait you I don’t know. A response to her saying you need to do better things with your time is a suggesting she could do better things with hers instead of nit picking about other peoples lives. Honestly, if your Mom is ok with you living there and ok with your rabbits, what is it to anyone else?
  
  She pulled out a cotton ball from a ziploc bag in her room and said it was covered in fur.
  
  I’m sorry, but this did give me a giggle. Maybe that’s a tactic for you when dealing with her. Just laugh and walk away.
  
  Regarding work – there are other reasons to work. Not just because people have dependants. You really don’t owe your coworkers an explanation anyway. People can be so thoughtless and frustrating!
- 09/18/2011 at 12:13 PM
  LoveChaCha
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  Coworkers don’t need to know anything. I asked my manager to give me more hours since I’m helping out with bills at home and she has given me more hours. The only person you need to talk to is the mananger, IMO. I do talk to my coworkers and get along with a few, but I just go there to work. I don’t let people bother me.
  
  From the smell, I think your sister is jealous of you or something She sounds like she has nothing better to do then to torment you because you love something. I agree with Jersey – if your mom is fine with the rabbits, nobody needs to say anything.
- 09/18/2011 at 6:27 PM
  Joyfull_music
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  Fam-i-ly (fam-uh-lee) noun:
  
  1. A group of people who feel that because they are of blood relation to you, they have the right to put you down, make you feel like crap, and be able to get away with it free from consequence.
  
  This is probably the biggest lesson on life I have learned in my short, 25 years of existance. Of all the people who have ever wronged me in the worst ways, 99% of the time they were related to me or my husband. Therefore I do not care who you are or how you feel, if you insult me, my husband, my home, or my pets you will be told to “go *expletive* yourself”. I am a very honest, understanding, and accomidating woman, but I will not hesitate to become very stone cold, uncaring and I will tell even my own mom off if she pushes the wrong buttons.
- 09/19/2011 at 7:00 AM
  kamdynandsunshinesmom
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  Thanks everyone for your help. know one else who comes into the house complains about it except my sister. My mom loves my rabbits and loves to cuddle with them as well. Sometimes when my sister is here and is complaining my mom will side with her then when my sister leaves my mom sides with me. I don’t think she wants to upset my sister. As for my work. I work at a restaurant and I work in the kitchen then I work with the waitresses and the kitchen is jealous because I work with the waitresses and run the cash register. Everyone I work with except 1 person has kids. The 1 person that doesn’t have any kids is the sister of a cook and the aunt of the dish washer. This girl has been in trouble with the law and has fines. So they constantly tell me I have know bills to pay and no kids to take care of so that is why I don’t need the hours. So these people I think are trying to push me out and get the new girl in. I try not to get into all this drama I am there to do my work and to do a good job. No I don’t owe them an explanation. It just makes me mad sometimes. I have been there longer than these people so I have the right. I have gone to my boss and they go to her as well and asked for more hours. Its just something I am going to have to work out and if it keeps happening I am going to have to go to my boss and say something. Its not fair that people who haven’t been there as long as me are working more hours then me. I also think my sister has nothing better to do then critize me. Thanks so much everyone for helping me out on this issue!
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