It’s important that we keep our cool with people. Like Huckleberry said, we risk chasing them off, and no one gets helped if that happens. Best thing to do ithese situations is follow the golden rule… “if you can’t say anything nice (helpful), don’t say anything at all.”
When all is said and done, BB is an online forum. It is not the place for everyone. We cater to a very limited group of people, and our advice does not change from day to day. If anything, we are consistent with our advice and very firm with our beliefs. All we can do is listen, offer advice, and hope that the animals involved get the proper care. We are not vets, our advice will (more often than not) be to seek veterinary care.
As always, if you feel a thread is taking a bad turn, rather than responding (especially if it makes you feel awkward), alert us via the alert button on the top right corner of each post. We will be notified and will address the issue accordingly.