Honestly, don’t think about it like that. It gives me a sense of security knowing I could move in with my parents if I ever needed. I’m thankful for that and hope I can give them that same sense in future years as they age. You said in the other thread, maybe the way things are going with your employment is a life opportunity. That’s such a posistive approach and you can look at moving in with your Dad in a positive way also.

You and Lolli will both adjust. We’re just like them, change is pretty unsettling.

I get it. Speaking from experience, I know you have not let those thoughts go round and round because it makes bad worse. I don;t know if you’ve had therapy for depression but if you have, do you have notes on techniques to help do that? Breaking that cyclic thought patterns?

Sorry Michelle, if my questions are too personal.

Edit: Here’s a silver lining. You still have internet access and BinkyBunny!

Personal Depression is the pits, I know…I’ll say a prayer for you that your life at your Dad’s will be as stress-free as possible. You have a good head on your shoulders. Don’t let it get you too down. You’ll look back on this time and say, “Whoa! Why didn’t I just take it easy and enjoy myself more…so do (to the extent you can) HUGS

Things work out, though it may seem not soon enough, they will!

(((Hugs)))

I am so thankful that you have a place to go, and that Lolli, although limited, has a safe warm pen protected from the elements. This is what matters.