Hey everyone,
Im new to this forum. I have a male albino rex named Toby and a female calico colored lionhead named Poppy. Poppy is the dominant bun while Toby is submissive. We are on day 14 of bonding so far and things have been going well. They have gotten to the point where they are comfortable spending all day together and I would like to let them spend the night together. The area where im doing the bonding is right near my bed. Since the area is all unneutral, we’ve been doing bonding on a card table (neither of them are interested in jumping off).
My question is this: Toby usually likes to spend most of his time in the littlerbox and Poppy occasionally will nip at him to move or get out of the box. Toby however is reluctant to move and sometimes just wont despite Poppy’s nippings. This aggrivates Poppy and her aggression gets worse. Toby will grunt and stomp and shuffle to another end of the box but still wont get out when Poppy is trying to move him out. When poppy is really pissed and angry, then Toby will get out but at this point both Poppy and Toby are pretty upset and need intervention to calm Poppy down. After a few minutes after an intervention, all resumes normally. Im not sure whether adding another litter box would help or hurt. I think that most of Poppy’s dominance nippy issues are cause of Toby not getting out of the box. Other than that, they are doing well, grooming each other and eveything. Most of the time they are fine sharing the box and once they have a scuffle i just calm them down for a bit. What do you guys recommend to ge tthem to the next level?
-Mary