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I want to get a friend for my 3 month old NZ Buck. He was with a lot of other bunnies since birth…until about 3 weeks ago. He is not at all aggressive to other animals. Can I get another baby buck? They aren’t territorial like does are they? If so, would they be at that age?
Oh, and I wouldn’t keep them in the same cage at first. I would let them out in the play yard together…supervised. Eventually they will be free roaming house rabbits
Baby bunnies get along very well until their hormones kick in. At that point, they are much more likely to fight than to get along. Even after you get them both neutered (which you would need to do) they might decide that they hate each other and would rather fight and you could have months and months of bonding work on your hands.
I would recommend getting your boy neutered soon, since most vets will do it at 3 or 4 months. Then wait for the hormones to settle down (about 6 weeks) then take him bunny dating to find him a girlfriend who is already spayed.
I can’t find a vet around here to do until he is 6 months. They said since he is a larger breed bunny he won’t be sexually mature until he is 6-9 months
They said that if I tried to do it now, it may be dangerous for him.
That makes sense – definitely do whatever your vet feels is safest. You’ll just have to wait to get him a friend until then. Don’t worry though – it’ll give you so much more time to bond with him yourself!
I will wait on the bunny friend. I’ll check around and see when he can be neutered. In the meantime, I am trying really hard to keep him happy. He isn’t a sad bunny or anything. I just feel sorry for him sometimes. I have 3 little girls and two of them are 2 1/2. They are not mean to him at all. They are learning “bunny rules”: They know not to chase him and that they have to sit on the floor and let him come to them. “We don’t pick bunny up” is the one they are struggling with. I can’t let him run around the house because of this. I am affraid he will get hurt. I’m also house training him….trying to! Anyway, I bought him a large Play yard to run around in. He gets to be in that all day. At night when my girls go to sleep, I get him out. I’m also planning to take him outside (with supervision) in his play yard (with the top on it). Is this fair to him? Any suggestions how I can maximize his space without giving up a room in my house?
Yes, I do love to bond with him. He just gets sweeter everyday.
I think it sounds like you’re doing a great job! I’m sure he’s a happy little guy. Just remember that bunnies can take many months to bond with their humans. We got Otto as an only pet, don’t have kids either, so we spent so so much time with him and it still took 6 months for us to really bond with him.
I think a lot of times, when people get a friend for their first rabbit, then don’t spend as much one-on-one time anymore because the bunny has his friend to snuggle with. I know I spend more time watching Otto now that he has Hannah and less time actually interacting with him. I’m so glad we had so long to bond with him ourselves and have a really special relationship before we got him a friend and I’m trying really hard to continue that one-on-one interaction we had before.
I think I got pretty lucky. He has never been scared of me. When he hears my voice he runs to see me! It’s not him thinking I have a treat because we haven’t really started that yet. I get in the playpen with him and he immediatly climbs on me as close as he can and nudges my hand to be petted then he falls asleep. When I get him out and hold him, he is so content with it. I’ll start to talk to him and he just scoots up closer to my face until I am practically eating his big ears. It’s wierd, he only does that when I talk to him. When I let him out in an entire room, all I have to do is sit on the floor and he is right there, chewing on my clothes…particularly my jeans. I know he likes my company, but I can’t be giving him attention like that all day.
I also know that my girls will learn how to treat him. They are almost 3. He will be freely roaming our house one day!
Don’t rush into getting a second! I waited almost a year after getting Meadow to get our second bun, and it was so nice having the special one-on-one time with her! Your bun is beautiful and he sounds like such a sweetie! Enjoy this time with him. You’re going to have him up to 12 years possibly, so you have plenty of time to get him a friend in a year or two if you still want to!
I think you will know when it is time to give him company, but around the time he is neutered is a good idea.
I started looking for a friend for Karl, when he was around 6-7 months old. At that time, I didn’t feel that I was giving him what he seemed to need. He had tons of toys and lots of attention, but somehow he just…sat there…hard to explain, but he seemed bored and lonely. I found a girl for him on the internet, but we actually waited two months before I brought her home. Until then, I made the arrangement such as getting him neutered and reading up on bonding techniques and corresponding a lot with the owners of the girl. They needed time to get adjusted to the idea of giving her away, so that worked out great for all of us. So, this is what you could do as well while you are both getting ready for a second bunny.
Karl is still the type of bunny that likes to sit by himself, but getting the company of other bunnies made him so much more lively and clearly much more happy. You should have seen him the day he met Molly, he was so excited and would not leave her at all, although I had to put her in another room in a cage. He slept on top of her cage or sat next to it just starring at her until she was finally let out of the cage ![]()

This is how Karl sat for 3 days. He hardly ate ’cause he wouldn’t leave her side and get into his own cage.
Your bunnies bonded instantly? wow! Did the female feel the same as he did? He clearly loves her but did it take her time? Did they fight at all?
And did you get an older female? She looks big. What breed is she? Mini Rex mix?
All mine have been easy bondings. Karl and Molly never fought, it was love at first sight for both of them. Molly was 3 years old when I got her (Dutch rabbit), but I really don’t think age played any role in this. Later, I got another male, 5 yrs, and he and Karl bonded instantly as well. Molly wasn’t aggressive at all towards the new male as such, but she did chase him if he got too close to “her” toys for the first 3 days. And that was it. Thereafter, all three were close.
But be prepared for the worst though. Since you cannot predict the outcome, when you put two strange bunnies together, it is better to be fully prepared for hard work. And if you do bunny dating at a shelter, the chances is that the bonding will be easier.
It’s so hard to find a shelter here that even has them! I’ve even looked in Kentucky! It’s easy to find them at pet stores but who wants to go that route? I think that you got very lucky! I only hope to be as lucky!
I was very lucky. I didn’t do any bunny dating either, as that is not an option here. But I had decided to go through with it, even if they would fight on the first bonding session.
But when you feel ready for another bunny, then read up on it. There are tons of good advice just on this forum in the Bonding section, but also on http://www.rabbit.org and most likely other sites as well. Also remember, that the more space/the bigger territory you bunny has, the more welcoming he will be towards another bunny. That is also why you will find some breeders saying that bunnies are solitary animals that don’t get along with others – the smaller their cage, the more aggressive and stressed they will be.
I am trying to give him as much space as possible. I don’t want to confine him completely. When I was in high school I had a friend who had a giant bunny roaming around thier house. They treated it like a cat lol. It was litter trained and didn’t even chew on thier wood furniture. I’ve wanted one ever since. I don’t know how they trained it but it was very neat to see.
I’m very new to bunnies, and would always go with a vets advice. But when my Flemish Giant started humping and nipping everything in sight, I asked my vet to please, PLEASE neuter him, and she did. Is he doing any of those lovely behaviors?![]()
No, he doesn’t hump at all. He just acts like baby. He is getting a little smellier near the scent gland though so maybe somethings coming. I don’t want him to grow up too fast but at the same time….I want to get the neutering over with. lol
oh, and I have to comment that you have a flemish giant? How old and how much does he wiegh? Any pics of him? I’ve been looking for a Flemish giant for months! They get HUGE! And they are known to be gentle giants. They are very rare around here.
