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My boyfriend has developed an allergy to Humphrey
I stayed at my mom’s house for a week and took Humphrey with me (house sitting). When we came back, my bf was unable to breathe. He said it was like breathing through a straw and he was super wheezy. Even trying to sleep next to him was almost impossible because I could hear the crud in his lungs. So Humphrey went to stay with my best friend so that we could see if it was him. It was. I even brought just the hay back once he was better to see if that’s what it was. Nope, it was Humphrey
I don’t know what to do! Has anyone else dealt with anything like this? I am against giving him up so I don’t want to do that. I miss him so much! Should I just make a cage for him to put on the patio and just keep him outside? I am so lost. It makes me so sad and confused. Any advice would be sweet.
I think it is too early to determine if it is an allergy to the bunny. You will need to see if he reacts in Humphreys presence, if any medications help, etc. I think it is odd that it happened suddenly like that and needs further investigating and research.
It may also be the hay. I agree too with Katnip, don’t be quick to blame it on the rabbit.
It could also just be seasonal allergies.
Also if there are allergies, there are medications to control them.
I have brought the hay back and left it open around the house and it’s not that. His allergy would go away as soon as he left the house, when he came back, so would it. Since Humphrey has gone to my friends, the allergy has gone. So it is not seasonal allergies. I know that people can develop worse allergies when a little time is spent away from the animal. He is not going to be on meds forever to be able to live in his own place, he just won’t go for it.
He spent months in the same place with the bunny and had a bit of an allergy, when I went to go house sit with Humphrey and came back, his allergies got worse.
In the case that it is Humphrey he is allergic to, what can be done?
Thanks
It would be around $150 a month for meds to make him able to breathe a little better and for antihistamines. He would just move out.
http://www.hsus.org/press_and_publications…nship.html
http://www.hsus.org/web-files/PDF/HSUS_Allergy_Brochure.pdf
Here is some good info on pets and allergies from HSUS. It probably would be good to read them.
Kendar, I feel your predicament.
What climate do you live in?
Assuming you live in a more moderate climate than myself, and assuming your b/f is permanent, I would at least look into housing him on the patio in a very sheltered way. If you were to move him onto the patio, you might want to think about bonding him to a second rabbit so he will not suffer loneliness. There are many things an outdoor rabbit needs protection from, but I would rather do that if it was me, than give any of mine up.
I agree with Petzy. If you can properly and comftorably house him outside, at least he can still be in your care and you wouldn’t have to give him up.
Well,, I’m not going to be of much help.
With all the experiences I’ve had with men, & all the experiences I’ve had with bunnies, it would not be the bunny that I’d give up. LOL
Does the bf fit on the patio? LOL
Oh noo goodness. BF could take allergy shots too. He sounds stubborn about taking allergy meds. I hate that cuz pets are given up stating allergies and the person is most likely too stubborn to take allergy meds.
Hubby is allergic to cats and refused to take meds. Then when he had an asthma attack I got scared and the cat went. Sadly.
I too would keep bun on the porch if I could. Rather than part with him. Tough spot. I feel for you.
Funny thing if one of my buns get too close to hubby’s face he will start sneezing. I had Ruby on the bed and when we went to sleep he kept sneezing. Fortunately we can work around it.
Otherwise I would be frantic and in your position. I hope this can get worked out so you can keep your bunny.
Yeah, I am pretty sure I am going to move him to the patio since I refuse to get rid of either of my guys lol. The bf is permanent, been 10 years this month!
I live in Victoria BC so it doesn’t get super cold here (unlike some places in Canada where it gets to -40). I think last year the coldest it got was -10. In the case of it being really cold I will think of some kind of heating method for him. I am a little worried for the summer though, it gets hot. It was in the 30s last month. But I am sure I will think of something to keep him cool.
Yes Furface, he does, in fact, fit on the patio. Hmm, ideas lol
Thanks everyone for the help ![]()
Actually, taking life long meds is a big deal IMO. I can understand his hesitation and it is asking alot. It might help to find out specificallly what it is about Humphrey that he is allergic to. Sometimes it the fur, dander, saliva, urine etc. If it the fur, you may have to house Humphrey somewhere that your BF does not frequent to often. Regular outdoor brushing and a air purifyer (sp?), regular nasal irrigation may help also. It may be his allergy built up slowly. With the bunny absent his system may have normalised. Then when bun was brought back, his system reacted. If his system was compromised before, it may have been something simple like a cold that had him really struggling. In a way, it’s good you are alerted to the allergy before he contracted cold or flu that compounded things.
I hope you can find a workable solution.
Also, look into vitamins that aid with allergies. Good old Vitamin C can lessen a histamine reaction.
Aww that’s too bad! I obtained Thistle because a family member from his previous household was allergic to him. Boy wasn’t I lucky? I think moving your bunny to the patio or maybe even just keeping him in one room that your BF does not go in, you could keep the door closed so the fur stays inside the room.
Just a little support – My brother is allergic to cats – he has 5 of them!
Turns out that he built up an immunity to his cats. Just as Jersey said can happen. He does NOT take medication for this allergy.
He does get reactions to other peoples cats, but is just fine around his own. Unless he gets scratched – then he gets a great big welt. However, the welt goes away after a few days.
Also, my husband is allergic to some dogs – and he has had dogs his hole life.
There usually is a workable solution – the trick is finding it. Good Luck.
These are all fabulous ideas. I don’t think I can keep him in just another room because he never went in the bedroom and my bf still had a reaction in there. We also don’t have a spare room. His brother is living with us right now so he is taking up wanted space 😐 Plus, when the room is not taken, my bf has big plans to make a game room :/ I can’t win lol.
I am sure it is either his fur or dander that he is allergic to because even if he just puts his face close to him, he reacts.
I never expected him to take meds for it all the time because i agree that is a lot to ask, he told me he would just move out if nothing was done. I think that moving him to the patio is the safest cheapest fix for it. The bf wouldn’t be to keen on experimenting much because his breathing is pretty important to him lol. Hopefully this all works out the way I want it to. I have been stressed out and missing him so much. When I think about it it makes me want to cry, I just want it to be dealt with.
You’ll have to careful about your clothing too, that may be what triggered the reaction in the bedroom even though Humphrey was not there. Because he reacted slowly in the past, he may be able to built up a tolerance again. Perhaps taking anti histamines initially and paring it back as he gets used to having bun around again? I really hope you can all be living in harmony again soon!
I like Jersey’s suggestions. You could start using an air purifier and maybe put hypoallergenic liners on the bed and pillows and use an allergy spray on everything else. It also sounds like your BF has allergy-induced asthma, which won’t just be a problem with your rabbit. If he gets around too much pollen or something he’ll likely have the same experience. It’s so douchey of your boyfriend to say he’ll move out rather than offering to take meds. He could at least try Zyrtec or something…. that works very well for me and isn’t that expensive, especially if you get off-brand.
I had hayfever and it disappeared after having hay around all the time but if my brother visits he is streaming with it when he leaves.
I was wondering if he sort of picked up another smell or substance while at your mums as it seems abit strange that he was ok before and then when you came back was bad. Has he been to your mums with you ? Could it be some fur from her pets that he has picked up. Long shot really though i suppose.
You could start him on patio and slowly move him closer as he gets used to it again. He might just need to slowly build up to it. xx
Just a thought, what do you use for litter?
sibley, it’s a lot to ask of someone to take meds so they are able to breathe in their own house. I may not like it, but I do not think it is douchey, plus meds are handed out like candy in North America. He never really wanted me to get Humphrey in the first place and he shouldn’t have to suffer for me getting him.
LPT, I use carefresh because it seems to have the least amount of particles. That is only for his litter box, the rest of the cage is blankets. I really hope it is something simple like that.
Kendar, yes, where I live it got down to minus 46 last winter. It was so cold that a bird came walking into my house. I kept him over night inside but he still died.
Ah! Victoria… what a much nicer climate for all things living!!!
So, about your patio set-up, in another thread Snugglebunny mentioned a pen with cover:
http://www.petsmart.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2751767
You could get something like that and attach it to a sheltered hutch. It is a great idea because it has a cover for shade that will hide your rabit from birds as well.
Wow. Douchey? Because he expects to be able to live in his home without suffering? I love all of my critters but if I was with someone for a decade I would put his health and comfort before the animals unless he was equally in love with them and offered to take meds. Everyone here is crazy about our rabbits but sometimes we have to remember that there’s a whole world out there that does not revolve around them, especially if he didn’t want Humphrey to begin with. I’d say that the fact that the rabbit is still in the house shows he’s a pretty good sport. He’s letting her try to come up with a way to keep him that won’t trigger his breathing problems.
…plus, if you stayed with your b/f for ten years, it’s probably because there was some compromising along the way…
Yes, thank you
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