I have a couple of experiences to share-hope they help!! Are you thinking of adopting special needs? That’s sweet of you Jers!!
So my first was Rupert, he has a crooked leg (it’s ninety degrees from the natural angle) from a break that occured (presumedly) during the time that he was a stray. He’s not really high maintenance and has pretty good mobility. He’s slightly incontinent and requires bum baths approx. monthly. He is slower then other rabbits and I really feel that he’s sensitive to his handicap there. We brought him home and he was very defensive towards Kokanee and Kahlua. He seemed afraid they would get him, so he charged if they even looked at him. I was working on bonding them into a trio, Kokanee really like Rupert until she saw him try to nip Kahlua-after that it was on and she hated him. She got sick and we stopped trying to bond her to him, and continued working on Kahlua to Rupert (planning to continue when she was better, which didn’t happen). Kahlua is not very bright and I don’t think their is anyway she notices anything different about him. I think Kokanee did.
After Kokanee passed away I brought home Chuck, knowing he was blind but finding out he was deaf as well. As you know i brought Kahlua and Rupert with me, partly to not leave them alone and partly to start the bonding on the trip-neutral territory, car rides-great oppurtunity.
Chuck had a good personality. He’d often been paired with bunnies at the shelter, and they told me their is no one he can’t get a long with. I think that played a big part. However introducing him to Rupert, instead of how Rupert normally reacts to new rabbits -charging, aggressive, angry,-he perked his ears in his super curious way, checked him out a lot and was fine with him off the bat. He humped him once, for a few seconds and was fine with him after that. We then introduced Kahlua to Chuck-she literally jumped two feet in the air when she saw his face-the side where he has no eye. She seemed scared of him, but kept checking him out and then groomed him alot. A little humping but mostly grooming.
I would say they definitely noticed that and were good to him.
I did have them in a trio, but I found that Rupert and Kahlua were startling Chuck too much when they approached him (he’s a very deep sleeper as you can imagine) and we seperated him to his own ‘quarters’. He is doing great and they still visit him when he’s playing on the couch. So although I wouldn’t say they are a bonded trio anymore, they get along great.
Soooo I don’t know if that helps but basically I think depending on the handicap they will notice. And I don’t think they’ll think it’s tough or a burden. Animals with special needs don’t sit around feeling sorry for themselves, they ‘live in the moment’ like Ceasar says, and other animals may be less threatened by them, or protective, but I don’t think they’d feel guilty or sad for them