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Forum BEHAVIOR Robbie is Attacking Lizzy

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    • Lightchick
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        Please help…

        I was woken up at 2:30am by a commotion in the living room.  I ran out there, and saw my two rabbits spinning around in circles in the pen, and chunks of white Lizzy hair everywhere.  Just as I got there, Lizzy launched herself up the ramp into the hutch, and Robbie followed, still chasing her.  I opened the door to stop them, and Lizzy streaked back down the ramp.  Robbie hunkered in a corner, pinned his ears back, and growled and pounced several times.  I help his head down, and then grabbed the spray bottle to spray him.  He continued looking at me like he was afraid of me and wanted to kill me.

        I took them both to the living room so I could see how they interact in a larger space.  Same thing.  Robbie immediatelely launched himself at Lizzy, who ran away, looking scared.

        I hauled them both to the bathroom, and they hid under the same shelves they once cuddled under during bonding.  I reached in to pet them, and Lizzy lowered her head for a pet.  Robbie pinned his ears back and growled.

        I put them back in the pen/hutch and watched them, and they seemed okay.  Not normal, because Robbie was still glaring at me, and hunkered down looking pissed, but Lizzy gave him a lick, and he seemed okay.  I went back to bed.

        6am, and the same rucous woke me up AGAIN.  I ran out there, and poor Lizzy couldn’t get enough of an opening to even flee the hutch.  A white chunk of fur, obviously from her tail was on the ground, and other tufts everywhere.  I reached in, and Robbie ignored me and kept chasing her.  I pinned him down long enough for her to escape, and when I let go, he went back to the glowering in a corner routine.  I reached back in, and he bit me hard enough to draw blood. 

        I pulled him out, and there were little cecals strewn in clusters around the back of the hutch.  Not sure if this is related or not.

        Took them both to the living room, and Lizzy hopped up to him, looking scared but like she hoped he would be nice to her (my poor princess…), and he pinned his ears back and launched himself at her again.

        I don’t know what caused this.  Nothing has changed.  At 10:30 last night, they were lounged together on the living room rug and I was petting them both. 

        I obviously can’t leave them alone together.  It seems like I can’t put them together at all.  I don’t have the 2nd bonding pen anymore because I gave it to BF so Thumper wouldn’t have to live in the cage anymore…I guess I could seal one of them in the hutch and leave the other in the pen and close the ramp.  But I’m afraid it’ll ruin their bonding…which is laughable because it looks like Robbie ruined it already.

        I don’t know what to do…


      • Lightchick
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          oh no lizzy’s got a wound on her side…rushing her to the vet right now…


        • Sage Cat
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            Oh goodness.
            My two have occasional little “arguments” – but nothing like this.
            I don’t know what to tell you – I’m sure some one with more experiance with bonding will chime in soon!

            {{{{{{{Soothing vibes}}}}}}} to Robby & Lizzy


          • TARM
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              Oh no! (((Lizzy)))


            • Lightchick
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                The doctor doesn’t get in for another hour and a half…she doesn’t seem in pain…I’ve locked Robbie in the hutch and left Lizzy in the pen…I don’t know if I should try to clean/treat the wound myself or wait for the doctor…


              • Ang
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                  uh oh let me know how lizzy is doing!


                • Lightchick
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                    I dabbed the wound with a wet cotton ball, and then put Neosporin on it. Shes’s still hopping around, and seems okay…her mother is a slobbery mess though!

                    Robbie’s in the hutch destroying a matt like nothings wrong.

                    I let them out together one last time before I found the wound. Under the dining room table–very small area. I wanted to see if I could find what was inspiring the attacks. Robbie seemed okay with Lizzy (not friendly, but tolerant) if he hopped past her. Everytime she moved, though, he would either attack, or snake his head forward low, ears back.

                    They’ve always had “groom-me-offs” as I call them, leaning their forheads together asking the other for a groom. Robbie has always broken first, and licked Lizzy, and she’s always been happy to lick him back. This time, he was absolutely insistent and wouldn’t break. And Lizzy sort of looked at him like she didn’t understand. Normally, she lick him if he asked, but he was being so mean, she seemed afraid to. Finally, he broke and licked her head, then he moved to her side, still licking. And then, almost like he was being sneaky about it, in the middle of licking her side, he turned his head and nipped where he’d just been licking. That’s when I noticed the pink splotch and dug under her fur and saw the wound.

                    I don’t know what’s going on here at all…


                  • Lightchick
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                      And I just found yellow stuff on her other side…I don’t know what it is, maybe urine? My nose is clogged up from crying and I can’t smell…it’s not in a place she could have peed on herself, though… And now I can’t get her to stop licking her ouchy, which I’m assuming is bad… Sorry guys for all the posts, I’m a little hysterical, and if I can’t figure this out Robbie’s going to have to go….


                    • Sarita
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                        Oh no! It can be impossible to know what happened. How long have you had them together now before this happened?

                        After her wound heals I would just start over again – hopefully it’s a not a totally broken bond and can be fixed in time again.


                      • Lightchick
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                          Robbie’s been neutered 2 months. They’ve been bonded (living together full time) for 1 month.


                        • Lightchick
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                            Robbie just wolfed down all his food, so I’m going to say his problem was not indigestion.


                          • Sarita
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                              That sure doesn’t make sense does it…I would keep trying again – maybe see if there is something in the area that seems off to you that might set him off. Heck it could have been a shadow that scared him. I would start again in a few days with some short sessions again to see what happens but wouldn’t put them together again today or tomorrow – let the bad vibes have time to heal.


                            • Beka27
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                                oh no! how is Lizzy’s side? i have no idea. thank gosh you heard them!


                              • Lightchick
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                                  The vet shaved the area around the wounds (yes, plural, I found another while we were in the waiting room) to see how bad they were. And then, of course, because that vet sucks and I never followed up on getting another one (bad bunny mommy), the sullen assistant brought my poor baby back out, shaved and covered in goo, and the doctor never reappeared to offer any explanation. I asked to speak to the doctor, and once again, was asked what my questions were, so that the receptionist could run interference.

                                  So, I never got an assessment in person from the vet. What I have is a follow-up appointment for next week which I will be canceling after I find another vet.

                                  The wounds apparently weren’t severe enough to warrant surgery. I was given Nolvasan to clean the wounds with, SSD to apply topically once a day (Lizzy keeps licking it off…does anyone know if this is safe for her to be ingesting? Is it doing any good if she licks it off?), Metacam, and Baytril.

                                  Robbie is lounged in the hutch looking completely disinterested and unapologetic. If I reach in there, he hunches up in the corner, but hasn’t pounced since this morning. He does get all happy-face when I go near the cabinet that has the pellets, which just disgusts me. I know, I shouldn’t hold an animal to human standards, but I don’t even want to look at him right now.

                                  BF is driving up from San Diego and buying me another pen on the way so Lizzy can have her home back, and Robbie can move out. I have to keep them separate until Lizzy’s wounds heal, at least. Poor Lizzy Princess Bunny…


                                • Lightchick
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                                    Actually…he’s not just lounged. He’s flat-out on his side. He NEVER lays flat-out on his side. The only time I’ve seen him do that was once when he was hopped up on meds after his neuter. This is weird…

                                    He’s been shedding something AWFUL lately. In really ugly ways–like there are patches where all the top-coat is gone, and there’s just a little bit of under-coat fluff left. And other patches where all the undercoat is pulling out. I know rabbits can get weird fuf patterns as they shed, but it’s really bad…

                                    Could any of this be related? The shedding is the only thing that’s new at all. And now I’m really nervous about this being on his side thing….Or has he just in one moment gotten so comfortable that he feels like he can lounge, and that he owns the apartment and Lizzy and I are his subordinates? There was seriously no warning..


                                  • Beka27
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                                      ugh. i’d personally refuse to pay until i spoke with the vet in person. there is no reason why you should not be able to talk to the vet. maybe a stand-off at the reception desk would bring the ever-elusive vet out to see you…

                                      i’m not familiar Nolvasan… Katnip?

                                      i can understand you being angry with Robbie. you’re right that he’s not human, he’s not going to have the same emotions humans have, but i get being frustrated with him. Lizzy is your baby girl and you don’t want to see her hurt.

                                      i wonder if he’s not feeling well. is he pooping normally, you said he’s eating. i wonder if he might be in pain in some way that is making him aggressive. it’s not normal for it to come on so suddenly.

                                      edited:  i SWEAR we’ve had conversations about aggression and shedding.  does anyone remember that or am i just bonkers?


                                    • Sarita
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                                        Don’t be mad at Robbie :~(
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                                        There could be so many reasons this happened and let’s just hope it can be fixed. He’s not a bad rabbit.

                                        There could be so many factors really – just trying to figure out what it could be is difficult and it’s possible you are on to something with the shedding and change of seasons. It sounds like he did a full bunny flop to me which is why he is on his side.

                                        It does sound like you need to change vets though. I’m not familiar with Nolvason but I would hope the vet wouldn’t give you something that would be a problem due to licking it since this is probably a common reaction with many animals.

                                        Healing vibes to Lizzy.


                                      • Sage Cat
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                                          Poor Lizzy – ((((((((((((Healing Vibes))))))))))

                                          But, poor Robbie, too. Something might be wrong and you just are not seeing it yet. I seem to remember something about a bun who was getting aggressive during a big shed, too.

                                          Vet not talking to you – very unprofessional.


                                        • Lightchick
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                                            I’m actually more concerned about the SSD than the Nolvason. The Nolvason is a blue liquid I’m supposed to dilute and use to clean the area. It’s the SSD that’s the gunky topical stuff that she keeps licking off…

                                            Thanks so much for listening to me freak out! I know Robbie’s not BAD…he’s just acting very bad! (He attacked me too, for no good reason, so it’s not just a weird inter-rabbit relationship thing…) Lizzy’s definitely my baby of the two…

                                            I actually did have words with the receptionists. All they kept saying was, “If you have any further questions, we’d be happy to go ask the doctor.” I tried telling them that that wasn’t the point. When the vet says, “We’re going to take your rabbit in the back to look at ______”, and then 10 minutes later a sullen assistant is dumping the rabbit cage back on the table like so much freight, and nobody says one word to you about what they did or found back there, that’s not right. They didn’t get my point at all.

                                            I just made an appointment for Lizzy’s checkup at MooBunnay’s old vet. 14.5 miles away, but worth some annoyed rabbit car-time to never have to go back to the old vet.

                                            Beka, if you remember anything about the shedding/aggression thing I can’t wait to hear!

                                            Sarita, it looks like a contented bunny-flop, but like I said, Robbie has NEVER done one except once when medicated. And for him to do one now, after a night long of scuffles, of me yelling at him and spraying him with water, and then being locked in a hutch…it would just seem like an odd time for him to decide life is so perfect that he needs to flop…you know what I mean?

                                            Ack. I have to go teach now. Not in the mood for 14-year-olds right now…


                                          • Beka27
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                                              your vet makes me want to scream. seriously. ugh.


                                            • Sarita
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                                                Well, I’m not certain what SSD is – is that Silvadene?


                                              • KatnipCrzy
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                                                  Nolvasan is chlorhexadine which is used a a surgical scrub/cleaner.  It is a good way to clean a wound as it does not destroy tissue like hydrogen peroxide does.

                                                  I am not sure what SSD is?  can you give me a drug name? 

                                                  Not that I am in any way defending your vet- it sounds like you already have had issues!  But a possible scenario is that the vet was scheduled for a surgery morning and was able to take a look at Lizzy on an emergency basis between surgeries and able to instruct the techs to shave and clean the wound, etc.  If we have a client call with an emergency and we only have 1 vet in and he is in surgery- sometimes we do something similar, although sometimes we have the pet dropped off (which would not work as well with rabbit maybe) and I hope that our communication with clients is much better!)  But the doctor would actually do an exam on the pet- not just “take a peek”, he/she would actually put their hands on the pet to assess the pet which is why it would be done between surgeries (due to sterile gloves and gown).

                                                  Since it sounds like you were not happy previously- I would switch vets- and really 14.5 miles is not so far away.  If I were to drive to a vet that treats exotics all day/every day, which I would do in case of serious illness- it would take me at least 45 minutes drive time.  I think a pro-longed car ride is better for the bunny as opposed to inadequate care by a cat/dog vet.


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                                                    Oh no, poor Lizzy!

                                                    I hope her & Robbie work it out, it would be horrible if Robbie had to find a new home.

                                                    Just try to remember that rabbit behaviour isn’t always understandable to us but don’t blame Robbie…I know you do & will because I blamed Charlie when he tried to kill my guinea pig ~ but we don’t know what drives them…

                                                    I’m so sorry that this could happen to you, it sounds terrible, beyond terribe, catastrophicly stressful. Please fell better yourself as well.


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                                                      So could it be a dominance issue? Maybe Robbie started humping her and peed on her? Charlie gets MAD when Laya wont give in on a groom-me-off and he’s bitten her heaps of times because of it. Maybe Lizzy is being really strong willed & Robbie is trying to be the dominant one, and getting nasty. I know that one of the big fights that Layla & Charlie had happened a little while after they were ‘bonded’ and the whole cause of that one appeared to be that Charlie’s ego was damaged by Layla’s unsubmissiveness.

                                                      I really hope it can be worked out between them! Poor Lizzy. Robbie could be playing the ‘I’m more comfortable than you are’ game, trying to assert dominance?


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                                                        I didn’t see your post until just now. So sorry Lizzy is wounded. I do think it’s possible that Robbie isn’t feeling well in some way. Can you take him to the new vet also? It might be a good idea to discuss his behavior with a new vet, and have him examined.

                                                        Definitely get a new vet asap. Your vet might have been busy, but mine always has me right in the exam room with her – in fact all my vets did except for one, who only lasted one visit with me. If the vet is in surgery, that message is easily relayed.

                                                        Of course you’re mad at Robbie, and thinking the worst. But before you flush the little bugger, have a carrot right in front of him and don’t give him any. You’ll feel better, he’ll be jealous. So there. Poor little Lizzy. She still wants to be his friend.


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                                                          Yes Beka there was a conversation a while back about shedding and aggression.  Someone’s bun was shedding big time and became unusually grumpy and sullen.   After the shed was over he went back to normal.  I dont’ remember the name of the post but that was my first thougth too.  Could it be grumpiness cause of the heavy shed?  And the stress of new bunny friend on top of it all?  I mean having a new bunny friend shouldn’t be stressful but with buns you can never tell.


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                                                            Lightchick, I’m sorry to hear you went through this experience, especially after having just bonded the two. Hope Lizzie and Robbie are returning to their former selves by now. As Sarita said, you may not be able to find what instigated this aggression, only make some educated guesses. Your having monitored them together right after the instances may help though.

                                                            Were you able to check Robbie over as well? Would he let you handle him? Seems he was the main culprit but Lizzie could have got a defensive nip in at some point. It certainly reads like a dominance display. Seems Lizzie is not totally petrified of Robbie so that’s good. He seems to be chasing her off. Is he being territorial?

                                                            Having being a street bun, maybe he’s pretty mean when it comes to any perceived threat to his territory. Has he displayed anything like that before? He always seems the more laid back of the two! Actually now I remember his behaviour toward you when you first met, the territory argument doesn’t make sense!

                                                            Did the vet’s office tell you what they thought the yellow substance on Lizzie was? It does sound like urine…If it was Robbie peeing on her, that sounds like dominance or a urinary complaint(?). I’ve have read rabbits can get Urinary tract infections. This can cause aggression in other animals but unsure regarding rabbits. I do know from experience in aged care, that UTI’s can cause complete personality changes in some people!

                                                            Well I hope you can gain some clarity on this issue and things are resolved. I’m sure Robbie and Lizzie will forgive one another pretty quickly. Arghh, they shouldn’t have given you such a scare though!

                                                            Edit:  The shedding/aggression looks like a possibility too, by the looks ^^.


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                                                              Lightchick – here is the link to the forum I think everyone is talking about

                                                              https://binkybunny.com/FORUM/tabid/54/forumid/3/tpage/1/view/topic/postid/50191/Default.aspx#50296

                                                              I don’t know how to do a real link so you might have to copy and paste it.

                                                              My bun Smudge has a severe Jekyll/Hyde complex when she goes through a big shed. She lunges and grunts and gets really upset over her coat and then once it evens out and the shedding lets up a bit she seems to go right back to normal. I swear during her “losing clumps of hair and having bald spots” sheds she’s a completely different rabbit, she is angry all the time. She actually just had a semi-bad shed a couple weeks ago, just her back end seemed to be losing alot of hair I just kept grooming her as much as I could, I tried to pick days where she seemed less grumpy and bribery was a factor (3 brush strokes= a piece of dill/mint something like that). I also found that for getting Smudge out of her pen when she was like this just to make sure she was okay or give her a once over with a brush OVER MITTS were my savior! It’s harder to have a sercure hold on the bun but what I’d do was put on the mitts, get her out of the cage with one hand on the bum and one on the chest and just sit her right onto the kitchen floor (right where her cage is) in the middle of my legs forming a circle, keep one mitt on just in case and do a quick pulling out of any huge clumps that might cause digestive problems, do a quick brush or even just reiterate that I am boss but I still love her by having a few head pets and then back to the condo she went if she had had enough.

                                                              She’s never ever been a biter but the last time she went through a shed (before this mini-one) I learned the hard way she she took a chunk out of me with no warning whatsoever. I has so hurt and angry that she was behaving this way even though like you said we know they’re not human. I just couldn’t believe she had bitten me and didn’t want to be around me or anyone for that matter at all. She even attack her stuffed toy Bob the Bunny, he’s now missing a fur patch on his ear… which makes me wonder about Robbie attacking Lizzy, I wonder if he asked to be groomed and she didn’t or she stopped before he was ready for her too, or maybe she groomed him and he wasn’t enjoying it? I’m not sure what’s possible but I hope they’re both okay and hopefully the link to the other forum gives you some insight. It seems there are some buns who get grumpy when shedding…


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                                                                Samantha, thank you so much for the link! I will take a look at it ASAP!

                                                                I hope I can find out what caused this…I don’t know if I can ever feel comfortable leaving them alone together again if I don’t know what caused this complete turnaround…

                                                                Trying to answer everyone’s questions:

                                                                KatnipCrzy, the prescription bottle doesn’t give a scientific name other than SSD, so that’s all the info I have…

                                                                JerseyGirls, he’s NEVER been territorial AT ALL before. He always has been the most laid-back of the 2.

                                                                No, I never found out about the yellow stuff on Lizzy. She cleaned it off, and I was so busy worrying about other stuff, I forgot to ask, and I’m sure that clueless vet wouldn’t have been able to help, anyway.

                                                                Katnip, I TOTALLY get that if the vet is squeezing you in, they might have to run off to surgery or something. But I know she wasn’t off to surgery, and this happens with EVERY vet in that office, every time I go in, and I always have an appointment. Their policy seems to be to spend as little time interacting with the owners of their patients as possible, and to filter as much of that interaction as they can through their receptionisits. So yes, I’ll be trying the other vet. I know 14.5 miles isn’t too far…but you know how it is with an angry bunny in a box! Seems like twice as far!

                                                                And yes, I did check Robbie over for wounds as soon as he stopped hissing and spitting at me. None that I can see. Still shedding half his body weight every day, though.

                                                                Lizzy, on the other hand, has a 3rd ouchy on her CHEEK, which I found when petting her last night (more hysteria from me…lordy I’m a mess this week!). She seems to be ok, though. She’s milking her victim status for attention and pets, but when nobody’s looking, she binkies and runs and flops on her wounds, so I guess they don’t bother her TOO much! On the funny side, my BF was so worried about her, he’s been lavishing attention on her, and she used to be okay with him, but obviously liked me best. Now, when he sits on the couch, she hops up after him, bats her eyelashes and demands pets from him. The little flirt!

                                                                BF, on the other hand, is SOOO mad at Robbie, he won’t even look at him. I suggested maybe trying to put the 2 buns in the same room this morning, and his normal response to something I suggest that he thinks is a bad idea is, “well, if you want to…”. Today it was, “Absolutely not!”

                                                                Robbie is weird. He is no longer sitting hunched in a corner growling at me. He now would much rather be in the hutch than the pen (the opposite of his former preference), and when he’s in the hutch, he flops, rolls over onto his back and kicks his legs in the air happily, and looks thoroughly content with life. Again, the bunny who never flopped before. Also, after the initial day-and-a-half of trying to kill me for no apparent reason, now he ASKS me for pets. Which he has also never done before. And stays all lounged out when I pet him, and closes his eyes happily, when he used to tolerate a pet, but shift from lounge into the more-ready-to-flee meatloaf position.

                                                                So suddenly he likes me and the hutch better.

                                                                In the living room, he was exploring and sniffing everything this morning like he’d never seen it before. He was obviously sniffing around where Lizzy had been, and leaving poops where he smelt her (again NEVER done this before). BF swears when she hopped past the pen that he was in yesterday, he laid his ears back at her, but I didn’t see it, and BF is definitely biased…

                                                                Lizzy, on the other hand, is TERRIFIED of him, now, and when he hops by, she scurries away.

                                                                Although, occasionally they will meet on opposite sides of the pen-wall, and sniff. They do a groom-me-off, which either ends in a stalemate, in which Lizzy hops away, or in Lizzy licking him. But even the licking doesn’t seem happy on either side…

                                                                Part of me feels like it’s almost like Robbie’s a different rabbit. Like in one moment, everything changed about him. His preferences, his attitude toward me, and toward Lizzy. It’s like he got amnesia, forgot EVERYTHING, woke up in a strange hutch with a strange rabbit, then got “attacked” by a strange human. And it’s like in the past couple days he’s decided that I bring food and pet him and groom him, and am therefore ok. But Lizzy he doesn’t seem to know at all anymore, by sight or sound. His hearing’s fine. His sight is fine. He remembers things like the sound of papaya treats rattling…

                                                                Or could he in one instant suddenly get territorial, and decide that the hutch and pen were all his? Like I said, he’s never been territorial AT ALL. Within a week of meeting Lizzy, they could be in each others cages without any displays of aggression whatsoever. What would change that?

                                                                And what would change everything else? Seriously, he seems so different… (not sick–he’s eating, pooping, drinking). Today, he seems so much HAPPIER than he’s ever been before. Yesterday and the day before, obviously, he hated all of us and was out for blood… But I tried to work with him last night to get him more socialized, and it seems to be helping more than is possible…

                                                                I wonder if he’ll go back to the old Robbie after the shed is over. Or if I’ll have to re-bond them. Or if EVERY shed I’ll have to separate and re-bond them. Or if he had a stroke or something that knocked out his memory.

                                                                It’s so strange…


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                                                                  Makes me wonder if Robbie is still hormonal.

                                                                  Is the SSD is a white cream? I’m thinking it is Silvadene.


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                                                                    i really hope you can figure this out, or Robbie will stop being a butthead and they can be together again.


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                                                                      Strange, very strange!


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                                                                        *smacks self for lightchick* I am so SORRY I just saw this thread!! I don’t know how I missed it!

                                                                        What’s your vets name and address? I seriously want to drive down there just to yell!! What a frustrating experience!! *stamps feet* “Beka are you coming with me for the drive and confrontation?” UGH!!!

                                                                        It’s hard not to be mad at them when they’re being jerks. I had a hard time not being mad at Rupert when he was being a nasty biter to Kokanee and Kahlua. It’s trying. I’d wait until long after she’s healed and then maybe restart bonding? *HUGS* and {HEALING VIBES}

                                                                        *** on the SSD
                                                                        Katnip here’s somethign I found mentioning SSD, it’s ciproflaxen I believe. I think I remember reading that it’s a topical antiobiotic??? https://clevengerscvc.vetstorerx.com/index.cfm?CatalogBrowse=true&ProductInformation=10275

                                                                        Then another and it says SSD-is the silver sulfadiazine…that makes much more sense though
                                                                        http://www.thepetdrugs.com/index.cfm?page=products_detail&productid=114

                                                                        also if you throw ssd into wikipedia it says it could refer to silver sulfadiazene so that must be what it is.


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                                                                          hmm……I much more commonly see SSD/Silvadene prescribed for burns.  But the formulary does say that it does not caude diarrhea if ingested- so maybe that is why the vet was leaning towards SSD as choice of antimicrobial topical ointment.

                                                                          On a side note- if you end up having any left, keep it around.  It is awesome for minor burns- from bumping a hot pan to the dreaded curling iron/flattening iron ouchie.


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                                                                            Any update on Robbie & Lizzy?


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                                                                              Posted By KatnipCrzy on 11/17/2008 4:53 PM

                                                                              It is awesome for minor burns- from bumping a hot pan to the dreaded curling iron/flattening iron ouchie.

                                                                               Katnip… i’m guessing you’re referring to HUMAN use… altho how cute would Meadow be with CURLS?!

                                                                              but seriously, yes LC… how is the crew?


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                                                                                My vet prescribes the Silvadene for a number of things – it’s very good stuff – I do know it is used mainly for burn victims too or that is what it’s primary use is.

                                                                                Yes Lightchick how are Lizzie and Robbie?


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                                                                                  Posted By Beka27 on 11/18/2008 7:24 AM

                                                                                   

                                                                                   

                                                                                   Katnip… i’m guessing you’re referring to HUMAN use… altho how cute would Meadow be with CURLS?!

                                                                                   

                                                                                  Yeah- I should have specified human use!  LOL.    I can just picture Meadow getting all dolled up for a Friday night date with Max.

                                                                                   

                                                                                  LC- how is Lizzy and Robbie?  any progress or further revelations of why Robbie changed so drastically?


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                                                                                    Hm. *heavy silence is disconcerting* I sure hope they aren’t having to deal with moving house due to those fires in all this ruckus!
                                                                                    Hope you and yours are okay, LC! We’re all thinking of you!


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                                                                                      Everytime someone posts I check back here to see if it was LC! She was online last night according to her profile page – so hopefully everything is ok!


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                                                                                        Hi, all

                                                                                        Robbie’s still a butthead.  He snaps at Lizzy whenever she tries to say hello to him through the bars.  I don’t know what his damage is, but he’s not getting any better with her.

                                                                                        His shedding is easing off.  He’s actually being pretty nice with me…but I’m terrified to try to re-bond them, because there’s still no logical reason for his sudden hatred of her.  It’s not territorialism, because he acts the same way toward her EVERYWHERE.  His shedding isn’t as bad.  He stopped being aggressive to me, and is now perfectly normal…except for his behavior toward her.

                                                                                        She still adores him, and keeps trying to make up.  And he’ll tolerate her licking him, keeping one eye on me, knowing I will pounce on him if he is mean to her.  And then when she moves further down his side, licking, and her flank is exposed, he takes that opportunity to twist his head to the side and go after her.  It’s almost feeling like he’s PLANNING how to get her, with consideration being taken for how I will/can react.  I’m beginning to be afraid that even if I force him to re-bond with her, that he’ll just wait until I let my guard down, or am not there, and then he’ll do some serious damage to her.  Her submissiveness doesn’t seem to make him any happier…

                                                                                        Still don’t know what to do…

                                                                                        Lizzy’s healing up nicely, though. 

                                                                                        Here’s her two ouchies that morning–they’d just been shaved at the vet, which is why they look funny.

                                                                                        And here’s one of them now.  (The other looks similar).

                                                                                        Poor girl obviously misses having someone to snuggle with, though.  She’s taken to jumping up on the couch and cuddling up against me.  Which is really sweet and cute, but I work so much, I feel bad for her when I’m not home…  I’m really worried about what to do about this entire thing.  I don’t have time for 2 separate bunnies.  Or room.  And Robbie’s being really great to me, but he scares me with her.  And she so obviously wants a companion…

                                                                                        Here’s my new couch-buddy bunny..


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                                                                                          Argh!! Lightchick, now I fully get it – Robbie IS a butthead – ya love him but he’s a butthead. I see your fear, he can’t be doing that to her or any bun really. He can’t be all Jekyll and Hyde. I guess a lot of animals living together fight at some point. It’s the way of their world. Hope someone here has had some experience with this, with good outcomes.
                                                                                          I feel for you because it’s taking a chance and having them back together or separating them forever, which may be hard on Lizzie too.

                                                                                          How long has it been since Robbie was neutered? Perhaps there some other medical problem contributing to his behaviour. You know I always thought if there would be trouble, it would come from Lizzie, just from what you’d said about her personality and from having a female bunny myself!

                                                                                          I really want to see things turn around for the pair and especially you. Good on you for hanging in there!


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                                                                                            He’s totally Jekyll and Hyde… I’ve been looking at other people’s stories about their bonded bunnies’ temporary arguments, but this isn’t what they were talking about, was it? I thought maybe that’s what it was the first time I caught him chasing her, especially when they settled back in with her licking him. And I didn’t want to separate them and possibly break their bond by over-reacting. But after the 2nd time, when I saw those wounds, I had to separate them… I feel like her ouchies are my fault because I put them back together…

                                                                                            This isn’t the little bunny-tiff you guys have mentioned in the past, is it?

                                                                                            Jerseygirl, he’d been neutered exactly 2 months when he went after her. They’d been living together 1 month.

                                                                                            I always thought she would be the trouble-maker too! But she’s head-over-heels for him… Poor Lizzy.


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                                                                                              Poor Ms. Lizzy. I think Robbie is still hormonal though and may need a little more time to calm down.


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                                                                                                wow. well i’m stumped. it might be residual hormones, but so weird that they’d manifest themselves this far after the fact. i just don’t know. aside from illness, this is one of my greatest fears, that something would happen to break my buns’ bond beyond repair. i agree that you can’t risk putting them together if he’s being like this. you’ll have to ride it out and then make a determination of your next step.


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                                                                                                  I hate to drop this idea here because it’s so fatalist…but could Robbie have been smitten only while he still had hormones running through his system, and now that they may be all but gone, he doesn’t have the same personality?

                                                                                                  This is a tragic situation. But I look at that wound in Lizzy’s side and I can only think he was out to become your only bunny, Lightchick. Perhaps he got more attention from you before his neuter and now he’s not getting as much since you felt he was bonded to Lizzy and didn’t want to get in the way of that? He was quite the center of attention as ‘the rescued park bun’ after all.

                                                                                                  I wonder if he feels your resentment of him for what he’s done to Lizzy. Not like you can help it, I’d be furious at anybun who hurt one of my bunnies too.

                                                                                                  Have you tried any homeopathic therapy? Some Rescue Remedy perhaps? I put a little on Fiver’s veggie cookies for after his very stressful foot treatments and that calms him right down.

                                                                                                  Also, how aware was he that there were forest fires near where you were? Is the smoke still lingering? Could he think perhaps his life is in danger and he needs to lash out at anyone nearby? Remember he is still part wild. You have to look at his mental state from that point of view I think.


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                                                                                                    Posted By MimzMum on 11/24/2008 4:06 PM
                                                                                                    I hate to drop this idea here because it’s so fatalist…but could Robbie have been smitten only while he still had hormones running through his system, and now that they may be all but gone, he doesn’t have the same personality?

                                                                                                    Actually MM, I think you’re on to something here.  It could be like they had a false bond.  I don’t think it’s fatalistic though, once Robbie stabilizes, there may be a chance to bond them again but for good.  This theory just makes sense because Robbie is acting toward her like an unbonded rabbit, like “who are you and what are you doing in my space?” and Lizzie who remains hormone stable, acts toward him like a bonded rabbit, like she is his mate.  Of course determining if hormones are the culprit would be difficult. 

                                                                                                    With the discussions about shedding and personality changes, I wonder what/if  hormones are involved in beginning a shed and also in production of a new coat.  Also, I imagine there protein involved in producing a new coat so wonder if they require more protien in their diet during this time?  Does anyone know where to find more info on this sort of thing?


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                                                                                                      MM, that makes more sense than anything I’ve come up with! It’s just odd that it was so sudden!

                                                                                                      He is being awfully nice to me, now, though. He melts into a puddle of bunny mush when I pet him. Although, someone recently asked the question about whether this means they like the petting, or are they freezing, waiting/hoping for you to go away. I’ve sort of wondered the same thing myself… But he’s mostly nicer to me. I’m trying to go out of my way to pay attention to him.

                                                                                                      His weirdness started before the fires, so I don’t think they had any effect…

                                                                                                      That night was just so weird, with him attacking BOTH of us…

                                                                                                      But he’s such a nice boy now in his big bossy beasty way…

                                                                                                      So I’ve cleaned up my apartment and reorganized furniture, and I guess I can deal with separate pens for a while. He’s almost done shedding (and he immediately meatloafs when I take him in to be groomed–he almost seems to like it sometimes!). She’s almost healed. Maybe in a few weeks I’ll call the Bunny Bunch or Rabbit Rescue and try to find someone who will help me do a bunny-date with them. I just can’t handle it by myself, I’m so terrified.

                                                                                                      Not dumping the beastie back in the park, yet…not that it hasn’t crossed my mind!

                                                                                                      Where do you get Rescue Remedy again? Vitamin or health stores, I think I remember? I wonder if he needs some before a “date” with her. But would he just go back to hating her once the stuff wore off?

                                                                                                      If anyone knows the answer to Jerseygirl’s question about diet/protein/shedding/hormones, would be glad to hear! (I know people with blood-sugar issues have massive mood-swings…I wonder if this could have been similar somehow?


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                                                                                                        Well, hey, LC, don’t you also teach teenagers? You’ve got a roomful of hormones, and raging ones at that, to deal with all day. ^_^ Having gone through menopause myself, I can tell you that it takes a long time for humans to get them out of their system and it’s a bumpy road the whole way. I can only imagine how it must feel for animals; and yet they don’t have the stigma of ‘biological clocks’, so I can’t see that being the definitive answer here.
                                                                                                        I have to say, having dealt with more than a few sheds, it seems to have no rhyme nor reason to it. I keep thinking that the bunnies are done with theirs, and then they’ll start up again. No matter what I feed them, it doesn’t seem to do anything. (Although I do push a bit of the wheat hay during sheds, just to keep the guts moving.) And their moods swing during the whole process. Fiver is the worst of the three and yet they are all altered. Makes no sense.
                                                                                                        How much protein do bunnies get, anyway? I mean, plant protein is world’s different from animal protein, isn’t it? And wouldn’t it stimulate different effects in turn?

                                                                                                        I like that you’re going to take them to the Bunny Bunch. I think that is THE way to go, if you’re going to keep Robbie. Although one of the forum leaders here told me that, just because two buns are bonded doesn’t mean they won’t have hair pulling tiffs. (Hence why I’ve been skeptical of leaving Pip and Mimzy on their own for long during the day.)

                                                                                                        Please don’t take him back to the park! *sniffle* Send him to me first! ^_^ If I can wrangle Miss Cranky Pants (Pip) I’d be able manage him! xD

                                                                                                        Nah, I know you wouldn’t. And the ‘bunny puddle’ is definitely (from what I’ve experienced) the ‘happy bunny’ position. There’s distinct difference in poses from when I brush Mim or Pip, and from when I brush Fiver because he NEVER relaxes. He’ll be bunched up and stiff in a little bunny ball the whole time and doesn’t spread out until he sees me put that blasted love glove away where he doesn’t have to look at it anymore!

                                                                                                        Hang onto that piccy I gave you. I bet they’ll be back to that eventually.

                                                                                                        Oh, and I think someone said Rescue Remedy can be found in organics aisles in the supermarket or even on Ebay. I’m sorry I don’t recall the online store where I got mine, it was quite some time ago. It doesn’t last long, but it isn’t meant to. And I think this is something Robbie and Lizzy will have to work out over a period of time anyway, the Remedy just makes things go a little smoother. Like catnip kinda, I think.


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                                                                                                          Totally 100% agree with Mimz on everything! I think the bunny puddle for pets is perfectly happy-you’d know if they weren’t -they’d hop off with foot flicks and nip you if you wouldn’t let them run off. I also agree on getting help bonding. NOT that you can’t do it on your own, your perfectly capable, but with this episode and you nervous, I think it’d be best to get some help-even just for starters. If you’re nervous, they’ll be nervous; and you just don’t want that in the mix.

                                                                                                          I’m soo sorry this happened. I’m glad she’s healing up and they are superficial wounds; Rupert and Kokanee went at it (escaping dividers to kill each other) a few times and I was hysterical both times it happened. Only very small wounds but it was soo scary. I know how your feeling right now for sure

                                                                                                          I think Robbie may be a bit like Rupert…not mean really but just this, I have to bite reaction. I thought I’d NEVER EVER bond him no matter what…The first intro to Kokanee, Dave held Rupert in his lap and we posed Kokanee next to him; She started grooming him, he tried to bite her. No matter what we did, there was no lead up or indication he’d just lunge quick and nip Kokanee or Kahlua…I don’t know what it was but it finally left him and I am just so happy when I see him lying with Kahlua by his side. They look very happy and it was a lot of work but he got over his bitey thing. He NEVER tried to nip Chuck once, I don’t know if he realized his handicap or just had gotten over the need to bite, but he’s always been kind to Chuck.


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                                                                                                            Aww, that’s so sweet! I’m glad Rupert’s not a poop to Chuck! Thanks for the encouragement, too. That’s exactly what I was thinking, as far as taking them elsewhere for bunny-dating. I just get too worked up the second Lizzy looks scared, and I’m sure it doesn’t help…

                                                                                                            So, after reading Binkles’ post in Diet & Care, Lizzy hopped over to Robbie’s pen again. And she nosed around, trying to get at what he was eating (hay), and she doesn’t eat enough hay, so I took some out, and sort of draped it over the bars of the pen, so she could think she was eating with him, and eat more hay! (Her poop has gotten smaller since she doesn’t live with him, since he’s not there eating all the darned time, making her want to eat more…) She chowed down, and he seemed okay at first, nibbling on the other side of the pen. Then he sort of casually hopped over, and tried to take a chunk of fur off her side. This time, it didn’t even seem mean or ill-tempered. Just very matter-of-fact. “I’m going to pluck you now”. Thank you, Hannibal Lecter.

                                                                                                            Then Lizzy got bored and hopped into her pen. And I started to pet Robbie, whose been stuck in his pen (against his will) for hours, while Lizzy lounges on the sofa getting nose-rubs. And Lizzy hopped back to the open door of the pen, took one look at me, and then WHINED AND THUMPED at me! She NEVER thumps! Little diva…”Me, me ME!!!”

                                                                                                            Sigh. My bunnies. Hannibal Lecter meets the pretty Princess. I should put this in the Animagus thread…



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                                                                                                              Hm. Methinks the mend may already be in the works, kinda-sorta…no?


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                                                                                                                Maybe…or he just knows I’ll pound on him if makes any overtly aggressive moves… 

                                                                                                                The doofus…


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                                                                                                                  *sigh* The next guy I meet who makes some kind of PMS crack is going to get a Robbie whack upside the head from me. >.< Hell may have no fury like a woman scorned, but just introduce it to the crazy, wild buck rabbit with the attitude. 0_o


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                                                                                                                    LOL MM!

                                                                                                                    Robbie is feeling very Hyde today.  He gave me the stinkeye the moment I walked into the room.  And he decided to growl and box at me while I was trying to groom him.  And bite (but he doesn’t bite me hard enough to even leave a mark, so it’s not any worse than his other nasty behaviors.).

                                                                                                                    I’m an evil bunny-mom, though, and I don’t tolerate his fits of aggression.  I brought out his arch-nemesis:  the LINT-ROLLER!

                                                                                                                    He hates the lint-roller.  I remember somebody mentioning that rabbits get really angry when you rub the ground in front of him.  Well, I don’t understand it at all, but Robbie gets absolutely ENRAGED when I do that, whether it’s just my hand, or a tool, or the evil lint-roller.  But the lint-roller he hates the worst, because he bats at it, and it “bites” back!  And he bites it, and it won’t let him go!  So he does battle, and stands on his hind legs, and swats and swings and growls and is LIVID!  But the lint-roller always wins.  (I make sure there’s enough fuzz on it already so it doesn’t actually do him any damage, but he doesn’t understand tape, and it pisses him off!)  He doesn’t associate the evil lint-roller with me or my hands, for some reason, so after the lint-roller has made him look sufficiently foolish, he runs over to me, and hides under my legs.  Then when I wave the lint-roller at him and ask if he’s going to be good, he glares at it, but doesn’t go after it.

                                                                                                                    No more attacks on my person for the rest of the grooming session!

                                                                                                                    Lint-Roller to the rescue! 

                                                                                                                    (I only bring out Lint-Roller if he’s being a real butt.  It’s totally funny, though…I wish I could get a video of it!)


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                                                                                                                      Hahaha, he runs to you and seeks your forgiveness.

                                                                                                                      I wish he would settle down and be normal again.


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                                                                                                                        No kidding, Cassi!


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                                                                                                                          Oh dear. I have to admit, I get frustrated when Fiver gives me starch over a grooming; he boxes and grunts and charges me, every once in awhile he’ll nip me. But I don’t think it would help the situation if I countered with something like that. I just have to sit back and wait for him to realize Mummy isn’t out to get him, it’s just a brushing and he knows he feels better afterward. (You’d think after losing all my hair in chemo I’d enjoy the long locks that grew back, but I so identify with the buns when they need brushing, because I wish mine would come out like that again just so I wouldn’t have to deal with it!)
                                                                                                                          Do you think Robbie’s attitude is more of a fear reaction? Or is he angry and trying to dominate all situations in the house? I’ve had to accept that Pip likes things a certain way and I’m not going to change her mind. But she calmed down once I figured that out. Now I’m not saying Robbie has this issue, but it might help to know if he’s angry or frightened and that is what this ‘tude is coming from.

                                                                                                                          What kind of postures does he take right before he goes postal? What do his eyes tell you? Does he ever thump, btw? Did he act like this at all when he was out in the park that you remember?

                                                                                                                          Rubbing your hand on the ground makes bunnies mad? 0_o Jeez, I’ve never heard that, nor experienced it. Where did you learn that LC? I’d hate to think there’s that and other body language I may be sending to my bunnies that would set them off without my knowing. *gulp*

                                                                                                                          Like when I keep forgetting that Mimzy has this little space in his night pen that is HIS space. He doesn’t like hands coming in there, because he wants somewhere he feels safe. When I go in there with a paper towel to clean, I get nipped. And he’s been altered for almost a year now. I know better, and yet when I get into cleaning mode I don’t think about it and go right in and I hear the grunt a nanosecond before I feel the teeth. It’s really annoying, but I can’t fault him for it.


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                                                                                                                            I read the thing about bunnies getting angry when you rub the ground in front of me somewhere on BB. It wasn’t the topic of the thread, it was just a side comment. And I thought it was really odd at the time, but Robbie gets REALLY mad if I do it to him. I go out of my way not to, but sometimes he interprets picking something up as scratching the ground, and he’ll growl at me. That, I don’t understand, but I don’t mind.

                                                                                                                            MM, it’s not like I BEAT him with the lint-roller! LOL. I don’t know why he hates it. He was introduced to it during a grooming session when I was trying to get some of the rabbit fur off the ground because there was so much, that every time he moved it went flying in clouds everywhere…so it was rolling on the ground, thus making him mad, so he attacked it, and it didn’t “behave” right, and now it’s his arch-nemesis?

                                                                                                                            I don’t know what causes him to decide to be a brat at grooming anymore than I know why he’s gone postal at Lizzy. One day, he’ll clearly love to be groomed. He’ll even lounge out, with his legs behind him (which is GREAT, cause then I can get that patch over his tail that desperately needs brushing, but which I can’t normally get!), and the next day, he’ll just be angry about everything. Eating habits the same. Poop output the same. Everything the same, except his attitude.

                                                                                                                            I don’t think he’s afraid of the lint roller. I sort of think of it as giving him an outlet for his aggression. He jumps at me more than twice, I decide he’s not going to get any better, but he needs brushing, so I hold up the lint roller in front of him. Just hold it. He LAUNCHES at it, like Godzilla with a fluffy-tail! Gets annoyed that the lint-roller doesn’t admit defeat. Gets sick of the whole maneuver, and runs over to meatloaf against my leg. And then he’s nice for the rest of the grooming session. Weirdo.

                                                                                                                            He’s very Jekyll today, though. He followed BF all over the room sniffing at him, letting him pet him, and being a dream bunny all morning. (Again, no explicable reason for the change of behavior.) Normally he won’t come out of his pen when BF is here because he doesn’t trust him yet!

                                                                                                                            Of course, he’s still bit at Lizzy’s nose 4 times today. He bites at her whenever she sniffs at his pen, unless I”m standing right there chanting, “You be good, Robbie Rabbit!” in my stearnest bunny-mom-voice. Oh, he did actually tolerate meatloafing outside of her pen, while I pet them both this morning, though! Very Jekyll today…


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                                                                                                                              lolz…I wasn’t implying that you were doing anything untoward, LC. I just think it’s interesting how one thing for one bunny causes a totally different reaction for another…and the respective bunny slave. ^_^

                                                                                                                              I have to wonder if there isn’t something strange going on with his other endocrine glands…you know, sometimes radical swings in mood are due to thyroid or adrenal changes in humans. When’s his next vet checkup, btw?

                                                                                                                              Sounds like he reacts to that lint roller like the cat does to the laser pointer. VERY strange for a bun, in my opinion. 0_o

                                                                                                                              Does he often seem more mellow when the BF is present? That might indicate something. Maybe he feels a little outnumbered with you and Lizzy…you know, not every guy wants one girl on each arm…er..or..foot? ^_^


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                                                                                                                                I would hope you wouldn’t think I was an evil bunny-beater, MM!

                                                                                                                                No, normally he just goes into hiding when the BF is around. Not in an “I’m scared” sort of way (no cowering in the corner or anything), he just stays in his pen. Doesn’t seem to have any interest in coming out. And then when BF leaves, suddenly he wants to play. He won’t run away if BF reaches in to pet him or anything, either. It’s actually such a subtle thing, it took me a couple weeks to put together the correlation, because he’ll come out for a minute, do one circle of the living room, then sort of cruise on home…

                                                                                                                                So it was sort of weird that Robbie was all enthralled today…hopping along after BF, periscoping up for pets…very strange.

                                                                                                                                He is a strange bun…

                                                                                                                                Well, he had a checkup with a fecal test and blood test when I first caught him at the end of August. I was thinking about taking him in, since it’s totally occurred to me that it could be a blood-sugar thing, or a hormone thing…will a vet, even a rabbit vet, know how to look for such things? I should call and ask, I guess. He also has a little scab inside one ear that I noticed about a week ago. I thought maybe he just scratched himself too hard, and he doesn’t seem bothered by it, so I was going to give it some time and see if it heals on its own…I could get it all checked at the same time, I guess.

                                                                                                                                Sigh. Bunnies and I don’t want to go back to the vets again…


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                                                                                                                                  Oh my how did I miss this? Lightchcick those pictures were a flashback for me. It looks exactly how Bonsai did when Daffodil really tore into him last year. I had to drag my two up to my local HRS for “marriage counseling” i.e. re-bonding. I don’t know what it was but my two snapped right out of whatever was causing the same problem that you are having. I think that they didn’t want to be left there. I was asked to even decide which one of them I wanted to keep and bonding that one, Bonsai or Daffodil, with another rabbit at the shelter. Talk about nerve-wracking and a horrible decision to have to make.

                                                                                                                                  Anyway, I am getting side-tracked here. I was told to keep them away from each other until the wounds were completely healed and switch cages every day. That way one would have less of a tendency to be so territorial about the cage when they eventually kissed and made up. I did re-bonding slowly with them and it took a long time (2 1/2 weeks).

                                                                                                                                  Have you tried putting a stunt double in the cage?


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                                                                                                                                    OMG, someone else has had this happen?! Thank you, Rose, for seeing my post!

                                                                                                                                    How long were yours bonded for before they fell out? Was it a mutual hatred, or just Daffodil going nuts? Did you ever figure out why? How did you decide you felt okay leaving them alone together again?

                                                                                                                                    I have so many questions! It’s so confusing, and while everyone else has had bunny-tiffs, this is a case of Robbie waking up in the middle of one night, with no warning, and wanting to rip Lizzy’s face off. He still bites her at the first opportunity (through the bars of the pens.). She, meanwhile, adores him, and wants to hang out with him, and doesn’t seem to understand that if she hangs out next to his pen, he’s going to take a chunk out of her!

                                                                                                                                    I though about changing pens, but he still seems to thing her pen/hutch is “his,” and he’ll go up to the pen-door, and rattle it with his teeth, and then sneak around to the side where he used to lounge under the hutch, and shake that side of the pen. So I haven’t wanted to rotate cages, because I wanted to break his territorialism of that pen first. Does that make sense?

                                                                                                                                    They both have stunt doubles. I trade them every so often. Lizzy’s ok with either of them. Robbie LOVES all things plush, and licks them (stuffed animals, pillows, the rug if that’s all that’s available) whenever he feels stressed or needs to comfort himself. When I trade stuffed animals, he immediately gives the “new” one with her scent a good grooming. Which is a little weird, compared to when I let him out in the living room for playtime after her, and he sniffs around where she’s been in a very distrusting, unhappy manner.

                                                                                                                                    He seriously acts like he doesn’t know her. Even when he DIDN’T know her, he was nicer! He was curious and friendly and enthralled. Now he hates her.

                                                                                                                                    Anything else you can tell me, I’d appreciate, Rose! (Did you drop yours off for “counseling” for an extended period? I could take mine to the Bunny Bunch, but it’d be another $300 for 10days of bonding, and I’m a little freaking out about how Robbie seems to make me leak money by the hundreds on a weekly basis… I’m also afraid nobody else would understand how SNEAKY he is in trying to do damage to her! It’s not just an impersonal “stay-away”, he really goes after her!)

                                                                                                                                    So glad you chimed in!


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                                                                                                                                      Wow, this is promising. Maybe some of the rescues etc that do bonding services have seen this before. Perhaps it’s worth checking their sites or getting in touch with the people to check that out.

                                                                                                                                      He seriously acts like he doesn’t know her. Even when he DIDN’T know her, he was nicer! He was curious and friendly and enthralled. Now he hates her.~ Lightchick

                                                                                                                                      The difference though is he had not probably bonded as firmly with you at that time. And he hadn’t had access to the whole home yet had he? So he may view her as a threat to His domain. Plus he was probably still a bit hormonal ??


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                                                                                                                                        JG, hormonal, probably. He has the same play area now as then, though… I do hope that somebody else has experience with this! I’m not a good enough bunny-whisperer to be able to fix this on my own!


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                                                                                                                                          i almost hate to suggest it b/c it’s would be a big undertaking, but could you do a total living room overhaul? rearrange your furniture (cleaning everywhere as you go!), move Lizzy’s hutch and disinfect it the best you can, move his area and disinfect the best you can? maybe if the whole territory is unrecognizable to them both that might help to shake things up? if you did that you could switch pens every night and give them each very limited outtime in the shared space.


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                                                                                                                                            Oh that’s right, you’re as unhappy with your vet as I am, right? Claims to be rabbit savvy,t hen acts like an intern when you bring the bun in for even the most simple of procedures? Tell me if I have the right member who has this problem.

                                                                                                                                            And with your car troubles, not an easy thing to travel to the other vet you DO like who is much farther away, right? Can anyone at the Bunny Bunch help you with medical stuffs?

                                                                                                                                            *sigh* I do think the ear thing should be looked at too. I’ve been sustaining tons of spider bites which is common this time of year. It may not be a bite from Lizzy, but there could be some kind of insect toxin messing with him too.


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                                                                                                                                              Yep LightChick I sure have!  Even very recently too, so you are definately not alone.

                                                                                                                                              The event that kicked this off sounds so familiar to me.  My two started this whole thing in the middle of the night (I would say it was at about 1 am) about 6 months after I adopted them from my local HRS.  At which point they had been bonded already for 2 years.

                                                                                                                                              It took a while for me to feel O.K. leaving them alone at night, in fact I slept on the sofabed in the adjoining room to be sure.  The first kick off of this event and an expensive vet bill later I contacted the manager and she said to bring them on up and she’ll re-bond them for me (only boarding charge).  Well, I left them there a whole day and they didn’t fight at all.  I was still leery but was assured that they would be O.K. alone at night and I could take them back home with me. Sure enough, they were O.K..

                                                                                                                                              This fighting thing happens at least twice a year now.  I have no idea why, they just do.  I think it is because they just get sick and tired of seeing the other one, or have had it with the nips in the butt or being bossed around by the other bunny.  I religiously switched cages every night, and really I am not sure how much it helped.  It made their litterbox habits worse because they were marking everything where the other bunny was. 

                                                                                                                                              I ended up totally rearranging the cage this last time around, adding/removing panels (about a month ago), adding two litterboxes and two hay racks.  I figured out that this time, Bonsai was playing the sentry and not letting Daffodil into the litterbox or allowing her access to hay or even outside the cage to romp.  The floor plan is mor spacious and there is more than one way to jump or or down all the levels so Daff can go whereever she pleases.  Bonsai still is a butthead about giving her access to the hay but she has her own now. 

                                                                                                                                              In order to stop Bonsai from nipping the crud out of her and herding her into her “prison” i.e. the condo, I used a squirt bottle over and over again and hand clapping.  Finally, for grooming sessions, I would take Bonsai out first so Daffodil had free-roam of the entire cage and kitchen.  She would take that time to run all over the place during the hour that I groomed Bonsai.  When I was done, Bonsai was placed in an x-pen and I worked on Daffodil. When I was done with Daffodil, I placed her back in the room with the condo, and free-range of the kitchen.  I let her run about for a little while – about 10-15 minutes, then I reintroduced Bonsai to their common area.  To my surprise this little technique got him to stop his ill-behavior.  Daff just gets sick and tired of him nipping her arse and so when she snaps, she does it in a big way and tears the heck out of Bonsai.  So, when I see the signs – he starts to herd or nip her, I arm myself with the water bottle and stand at the ready.  Then I load them up in the carrier and off on a car-ride we go. I understand how sneaky and underhanded the damage they try to do is.  Bonsai is just like this and somehow I think we have clone rabbits here.  They act so much alike and the similarity of the events is startling.

                                                                                                                                              I have considered housing them seprately from now on, and even tried it for a while, but they get so lovesick and forlorn, it is punishment for them not to be together.  So, I try to keep tabs on them and make sure that if I see a potential tiff to arm myself with a water bottle and swoop them up and take them for a car ride to re-inforce the bonding.

                                                                                                                                              Let the wounds heal completely and I would suggest that instead of trying them together in a pen for a bonding session, go straight for the stress bonding in neutral territory.  Try on top of the washer, introduce a vacuum cleaner, use something that stresses them both to seek comfort in each other – you don’t have to drive.  I drove my two around every night for about 30 minutes.  No fighting happened and it only took about three times before they re-bonded. I know someone who got their bike out and put them in their basket, another who used one of those enclosed kid trailors that hook up to the back of the bike, another the subway.  It is your creative license to find something. Heck, even in the garage and start up a power tool or the shop-vac.  I *think* that someone even used a bungee-cord type setup on the carrier where it was suspended by one and the carrier bounced around in the air and the rabbits bonded.

                                                                                                                                              Keep some 50/50 peroxide & water solution, along with some antibiotic ointment (without pain killer), Rescue Remedy, Vet Wrap, and gauze on hand, if you have an electric razor yourself you can take care of scratches yourself without having to see a vet.  Rabbit wounds can get infected easily and I am not one to encourage self-treating, but a scratch you can clean and daub some ointment on yourself.  Set the bunny in your lap and blow into the fur to move it around and check for wounds.  You can also irrigate the wound with distilled water as well.

                                                                                                                                              Take your time with things, I know it is really stressful, but time is on your side.  Patience is key here and try techniques to see what will help your two.  Since they have access to run in the same areas,  you may want to split that area for now.  Or what I would suggest like Beka said, do a major cleaning and keep one of the two confined to one run area and do not let them run in the same area.  This causes a lot of jealousy issues, especially for my two and so having them run in the same area at separate times made it worse to try and bond them. For another re-bonding session from another fight, I found that keeping the instigator (Bonsai) in a penned-in space and letting the victim (Daff) roam the bigger area, pen-free) she and he grew a natural curiosity to each other without wanting to nip the crud out of one another.  It was quite cute to see them try to groom each other through the small holes.  You’ll want to be sure that they cannot nip through the panels. 

                                                                                                                                              I am also wondering here if there is not some jealousy over you happening here.  Robbie likes you to himself and is trying to keep Lizzy away from you because you are his.  How is Lizzy with you?


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                                                                                                                                                Thanks for the reply, Rose! At least you’ve identified a pattern…that has to help…

                                                                                                                                                To try to answer some of your questions…

                                                                                                                                                Lizzy is more “my” bunny than Robbie is. She loves me and will follow me around. He likes me okay, but has never been more than indifferent toward me. He was Lizzy’s bun more than he was mine, which is why a sudden territorialism over me seems odd…I’m not sure that that’s what happened.

                                                                                                                                                I never noticed any herding or nipping or any such actions on either of their parts. I always gave them 2 of everything (not specifically belonging to one or the other, just to have 2 available). 2 litterboxes. 2 bowls of food. The closest thing to this that every happened was Lizzy demanding a groom from him, and Robbie looking rather impatient because he’d rather be running off trying to eat my computer cords (!!!), so he’d give her a perfunctory lick, and then hop off. She’d sort of do a “well! I never!” look, and then follow him. That’s it.

                                                                                                                                                I don’t really have enough room for 2 separate play areas. I’ve sort of tried, but it just pisses both of them off. When Lizzy is out, she goes to his pen and tries to be nice, and he automatically bites her. There is NO pining on his part. It’s like he doesn’t recognize her at all. When Robbie is out, he goes to the door of her pen, and shakes it, trying to get in. Not to get at her, I don’t think, but because he sees it as his, even though he recognizes the new pen is where he goes to sleep, now.

                                                                                                                                                There seems to be no curiosity or desire to re-bond on his part at all. There definitely is on hers.

                                                                                                                                                Argh, Beka, I don’t know if a complete rearranging is possible. It’s a 1920’s shotgun-style (narrow, one room leading into the other…) apartment, with layout necessitated by window-door-floorheater locations… I could remove her hutch and leave them both in pens for the time being… Would this be enough of a change?


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                                                                                                                                                  Maybe a good thing…

                                                                                                                                                  I’ve been discouraging Lizzy from poking into Robbie’s pen, because she gets nipped. But she likes to steal hay that pokes out of his litterbox (she has 2 of her own, but whatever!), probably because it makes her feel closer to him. And I find it hard to discourage this, since she doesn’t eat enough hay.

                                                                                                                                                  Just now, he was in his litterbox, and she hopped over and started stealing hay, and he completely ignored her! No nips or laid back ears!

                                                                                                                                                  That’s an improvement, right?


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                                                                                                                                                    I’d light up anytime there is an absence of aggression. But I also wouldn’t take it as a truce, just a moment that there is no angst. They may have a ways to go yet. But that he doesn’t mind her eating his hay right now is good. Let’s hope it lasts!


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                                                                                                                                                      Oh, I know, MM! No experimenting with the 2 of them for me! They can just keep a pen between them! I WISH we were at the ignoring stage…

                                                                                                                                                      I’ve noticed lately Robbie seems bigger. Like maybe he was undernourished in the park? (I know, that wouldn’t be a stretch…). I wonder if one of his adaptations to living in the park was to live harmoniously with the other wildlife (like the 2 skunks he shared a burrow with) so as not to risk a fight or jeopardize any food opportunities. Maybe he’s getting all fat-and-happy and domestic, and has decided he doesn’t have to put up with that “sharing” stuff anymore?

                                                                                                                                                      Any bunny psychics in the room?

                                                                                                                                                      Or maybe I just give him too many treats and he’s getting fat. Also a distinct possiblity…


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                                                                                                                                                        I was just looking at my first pix of Fiver and thinking of the change in him since I brought him home in August. He seems so ‘bony’ in his pix, and now, well, he’s nicely filled out.
                                                                                                                                                        I don’t treat him often though. And he sure has enough gas to circle the earth several times in just a few seconds. ^_^ Maybe it’s just the lifestyle of indoor bunny that agrees with Robbie. Certainly he seems to like it and is not about to give it up. (Not that there is any possibility of that, but he doesn’t know that.) You may be onto something there.


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                                                                                                                                                          Hey Y’all – I just wanted to let you know what I found out yesterday:

                                                                                                                                                          Several months ago at my shelter a there was a pair of buns who had been bonded for about 6 to 9 months – Gizmo & Taylor, when Gizmo turned on Taylor and hurt her so badly she had to have surgery – She is much better now. But they are officially divorced.

                                                                                                                                                          What the doctors eventually realized is that Gizmo had a tumor on his Adriano gland that was causing him to produce testosterone again! So the poor little guy got frustrated and took it out on his poor Taylor. But if h had not attacked her – they may have never found the tumor. He is very healthy now

                                                                                                                                                          So, Light Chick & Cassy – have y’all had Robby and Charley to the vet for a check up recently?

                                                                                                                                                          BTW – it’s looking like both Gizmo & Taylor are to be bonded with some single buns who already have homes but need friends – let’s hope it ends well for them!


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                                                                                                                                                            Seriously? Divorce, then second husbuns or wives?

                                                                                                                                                            That is a valuable bit of info bout the cause Sage Cat! Thanks for posting it.


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                                                                                                                                                              I have heard of stuff like that before, Sage, but I’ll be darned if I can remember if it was animal medicine or human.
                                                                                                                                                              Has Lightchick seen this yet? This could be the answer for her on Robbie (although I truly hope it’s not a tumor, at least if it was that would be half the battle) but I am keeping my fingers crossed that the whole thing has resolved itself already.


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                                                                                                                                                                Hi, MM! Yes, I got Sage’s post! Thank you both so much!

                                                                                                                                                                I don’t see a tumor on him…

                                                                                                                                                                I wish I could take him in for a checkup. I took him in when I first caught him in the park at the end of August. He got neutered a month later in late September. I just can’t take him in right now, what with the car repairs and the small claims court thing I have to deal with. I’m out of money…

                                                                                                                                                                (I feel like such a dunce, you all are so helpful, and I’ve been delinquent in posting again. I’ve been at the high school for the past 2 weeks for 10 hours a day. And the internet went down in my wing of the building. And they don’t feel like repairing it…but they DO feel like being annoyed at me for not posting my attendance in a timely manner. You got it, attendance posted via the internet!)

                                                                                                                                                                I love my buns, but they are also exhausting. Lizzy recently FINALLY got over her broken-heart enough to just be annoyed. Annoyed when Robbie gets pet. Annoyed when he gets to come out. So then they were both jeolous and pissed off when I paid any attention to the other. So I’d come home, after a 12 hour day, to 2 bunnies rattling their cage doors, being irate at me. And I have 3 hours a day minimum to let bunnies play…but not 3 hours each. So inevitably, they were both angry.

                                                                                                                                                                I have to admit, I gave in to bunny-pressure 2 days ago. I came home, and they both sat at the doors of their pens, facing each other, glaring at me, rattling their cages. I let Lizzy out, because she’s the whiniest. She came out, did one lap of the coffee table, and then lounged in front of the coffee table. For TWO hours. It was midnight. I was tired, and had maybe an hour left that I could stay up, and she was settled in. I didn’t want to chase her home, because she was already hating me. And Robbie was sitting in his pen, front paws on the door, looking pathetic. And I thought, Lizzy’s lounged on the floor. I can keep Robbie on the sofa. I can handle this.

                                                                                                                                                                Do you see where this is going?

                                                                                                                                                                Not exactly where you expect…

                                                                                                                                                                Robbie settled next to me on the couch and quietly let me pet him. Lizzy realized he was there, had a teeny-bopper freak out, and leapt onto the couch. “Oh my god! Robbie! You’re back! I LOVE you!” she seemed to screech. He fled to the floor. She jumped down after him. He ran away for a moment, and when she followed (not aggressive, just sickeningly in love), he turned around, and then he was chasing her, and I was yelling and spraying water, and then he was on one side of the room, trembling, and she was on the other, trembling, and there was a clump of white fur in the middle, and I didn’t know which bun it had come from.

                                                                                                                                                                It was Lizzy fur. He didn’t actually bite her this time, just pulled out fur. And he was shaking and so upset I couldn’t be mad at him. Don’t know if he was afraid of her, or afraid I would be mad at him, or what.

                                                                                                                                                                And sadly (oddly? typically?) she’s back to gazing longlingly into his pen, now that she’s got another raw patch of skin. But at least she doesn’t hate me right now (I’m her backup when he ignores her again.)…

                                                                                                                                                                And I don’t have internet at school, where I’m mostly working these days, and I come home, and I can’t have the laptop out when Robbie’s out, because he’ll eat it, and I can’t afford to replace any more $100 cords. And Miss Lizzy, when I try to type instead of pet her, just now, crawled INTO MY LAP, and laid her head down in the “pet me” pose across my legs, because she’s feeling delicate and needs attention.

                                                                                                                                                                I’m so sorry I haven’t been around.

                                                                                                                                                                I can’t get rid of either of these bunnies. I love them both. But they HAVE to get re-bonded somehow. This is KILLING me! I need to sleep. And I need my entire life to not be divided between work and placating feuding rabbits… If they could just be out at the same time, they would be HAPPY with their out-time! They would, in fact, have MORE out-time, because Lizzy used to distract Robbie from being bad, so I could let him out more frequently… (He can currently only come out if I can guarantee being in the same room as him. Lizzy I can leave alone while I jump in the shower or do dishes or something…)

                                                                                                                                                                Argh.

                                                                                                                                                                Unfortunately, MM, the whole thing is not resolved. Thanks for the good thoughts, though.


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                                                                                                                                                                  Are you sure Lizzie isn’t exerting her dominance here? She’s chasing him then he retalliates. Do they chase when want attention from other bun or was that a chase to get him away from you? I dont know! I’m not experienced with the bonding or have I observed bun to bun communication.


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                                                                                                                                                                    Ugh . . . So frustrating!

                                                                                                                                                                    Best of Wishes to Light chick that this will all get worked out soon!


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                                                                                                                                                                      Well, if it makes you feel better, my rabbits are going through the exact same problem…bonded for over a month, then one morning….BAM…my male was attacking the female, and they both got bites! I noticed my female flop about 3 times in succession after I locked the boy up…I think she was utterly exhausted from all the chasing and fighting that happened before I woke up. She does flop sometimes, but I certainly don’t think she was happy at that moment. Just make sure Robbie is acting normally otherwise.

                                                                                                                                                                      Luckily, my girl Frank has forgiven Winston, but he still wants to kill her I’m doing some quick bathtub bonding sessions right now. Did you mention how old your buns are? Winston is only 4 months but fixed, so I’m wondering if for him it is age-related. My female is 1.5 years. I’m at a bit of a loss right now myself, but I’m telling myself just to be patient with Winston and wait for him to grow up a little. Winston is in a big C&C cage right now, and switches places with Frank a few hours a day for extra romps and pats.

                                                                                                                                                                      If things don’t iron out, I’m going to take them both to my vet for some help. Good luck finding a new vet! I feel your pain and definitely understand the disappointment, anxiety and concern, because I feel the same way right now! I actually looked through this forum for insight to my own situation.

                                                                                                                                                                      although I’m still optimistic, I’ve also come to terms with the fact that Winston may become my “studio” rabbit (i’m an illustrator) and frank might be me “living room rabbit.” and really, it’s not such a terrible thing.


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                                                                                                                                                                        I like the tumour idea too; I was thinking re-reading all your posts that it almost sounds a bit like a neuro problem, I know many animals get alzheimers or dementia-how old did your vet think he was? Maybe when you catch up a bit and are able to afford it you could take him in for an xray for tumours or bloodwork? If he’s really vaulting around from Dr Jekll to mr. Hyde I wonder if it isn’t something biological going wrong…

                                                                                                                                                                        On the digging infuriating rabbits I’ve noticed it too (so much to the point I’ve actually seen Pacino go over to Guss and digg in front of his cage-and vice versa-it infuriates them!!) I believe I read it was a ‘challenge’ to fight so that may be why he attacks your lint roller.

                                                                                                                                                                        Anyways that’s my non-so-helpful two cents Keep us posted LC and hang in there!!


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                                                                                                                                                                          I really hope you can get over this hurdle, I can understand where you are though, bunny fights and bonding mishaps I think take a bigger toll on the bunny mom rather than the actual fighting bunnies.


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                                                                                                                                                                            have you tried doing any traditional neutral space bonding sessions? it sounds like areas they both have a claim to (the living room, the couch especially) might not be the location for re-introductions.


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                                                                                                                                                                              Grrr…

                                                                                                                                                                              Lizzy has a bald patch on her nose. She keeps sticking it in Robbie’s pen, and he nips/yanks out fur, and she shoves her nose right back in. Normally I chase them away from each other, but apparently they got into it when I wasn’t looking last night, because she has a brand new bald patch.

                                                                                                                                                                              I’ve had it. I have no money, but now, at least, I have pet insurance. He’s going to the vet on Thursday.

                                                                                                                                                                              Also, for the past couple of weeks, I’ve noticed a weird discharge on the towels in the corner of the pen he sleeps on. I flip him, and see nothing. I don’t know what the stains are from. Everybody keep your fingers crossed that this behavior-thing is a curable medical issue! Maybe the two are related? (He doesn’t seem in pain, he eats, he poops, he binkies, he demands pets, so I’ve been sort of watching the discharge thing, wondering if it would clear up, but it hasn’t, and he’s mean, so off to the vet we go!)

                                                                                                                                                                              I’m printing this whole thread out to take with me to ask about tumors and whatnot…

                                                                                                                                                                              My poor pretty princess was finally growing back the fur she lost LAST time! No more pretty Lizzy pictures for a while, y’all. Miss Lizzy has a bald nose! And she’s STILL begging at his pen for attention! Battered bunny…


                                                                                                                                                                            • MimzMum
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                                                                                                                                                                                The song “Love Hurts” comes to mind. Poor bun! ;_;

                                                                                                                                                                                Hmmm. I don’t think a discharge is ever something good, but let’s not panic. Good to hear he’s going for a check. And, if there is an infection or something is hurting him, that would definitely explain the behavior! Perhaps we can finally get this all cleared up!

                                                                                                                                                                                Sending all good healing vibes to Lizzy, Robbie, and you! ((((hugs))))))))

                                                                                                                                                                                And, speaking from experience…don’t worry Liz. Bald IS beautiful! ^_^


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                                                                                                                                                                                  What kind of discharge? Color/amount/consistency?

                                                                                                                                                                                  *fingers crossed*!!!


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                                                                                                                                                                                    So did he go to the vet? What did the vet say? Any explanations? What about the discharge? Boy I’m just full of questions.


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                                                                                                                                                                                      So, went to the vet.  Took the towel so the dr could look at it personally.  A little gross, but here are some pictures, since describing them would be awfully hard. 

                                                                                                                                                                                      So, it’s too thin to be blood, doesn’t really look like urine, and new spots appear every night.  This has been showing up for the past couple weeks in the corner where he sleeps.  I’ve flipped him and seen nothing, so I’d hoped the Dr could help!

                                                                                                                                                                                      He looked at the towel, and agreed the stains are not normal.  Poked at Robbie, flipped him over, poked some more…  Said everything looks normal.  No swelling, no nasal discharge, no obvious sign of everything.  His best guess was that it was urine…  So poor Robbie spent 7 hours at the vet’s so that the Dr could try to collect a urine sample.  Robbie, of course, was not very helpful, and hunkered in a corner looking pissed, and refused to eat, drink, or charge up for a good pee, as it were!

                                                                                                                                                                                      So they ran a urine-analysis…came back normal.

                                                                                                                                                                                      By this time, it was an hour till closing, and I was back to pick him up.  The Dr came out to tell me he just didn’t see anything wrong.  And I asked about an Xray, and he agreed, that was the next thing he could think of to look at.  So the very kind Dr did an Xray at the very end of the day…  And apparently Robbie is a perfectly normal healthy rabbit, that shows no sign of tumor, UTI, GI Stasis, or anything that could cause weird discharge or sudden aggression.

                                                                                                                                                                                      So, we’re both at a loss! 

                                                                                                                                                                                      I said, “Well, I guess I just have the world’s weirdest rabbit.”

                                                                                                                                                                                      “I don’t know about THAT…The Monty Python rabbit probably gets that title!”

                                                                                                                                                                                      I like the new vet.  He came out to personally chat twice.  And dealt with Robbie all day to do the right tests.  Unfortunately, I still have no answers.  This new addition to this thread is now in the wrong section, but if anyone has seen this before, let me know!

                                                                                                                                                                                      (Robbie did zooms around the living room this morning, btw, he was so happy to be home!  Last night, when I brought him home, he was so mad he wouldn’t come out of his willow tent, poor guy!)

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