betw/ 3 and 4 months is when boys reach maturity and you might see the testicles. often times tho, they will “suck them in” so they’re not visible, so really, he just will need to be sexed. as soon as those testicles drop, he can be neutered. so if you go back to the vet with him, and the vet says he is a he and it’s time, i’d make that appt ASAP. now if Harley is a girl, hormones can emerge anywhere from 3-4 months up to 8 months. sometimes they never even become very hormonal. it depends largely on the bunny.
if i remember correctly, your other bunny is unspayed, right? see with her, the puberty might never have been evident, but every bun is an individual.
in the meantime, it’s important that he get out to exercise in a safe area. you can use this time to clean the cage. if he lunges at you, hold his head down for several seconds. do this every time. you need to establish now that you are the top bun. avoiding him will not help the situation and will actually make it worse. ignore the aggression, even if you need to wear gloves, long pants and long sleeve shirts for now…