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- 07/04/2008 at 12:29 PM
  RascalnBinks
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  Hi all. I trying to not get all teary eyed again lol. Tough to do though. So I woke up this morning to my dad telling me that my good friend passed away. Happened to be in yesterdays paper which for whatever didnt read till today. I havent seen or spoken to him in a couple years though,but still shocking. He went to school with my sister and my sometimes bf (dont ask lol) but I became friends with him also. His funeral was yesterday so we missed it,but im sure it was for family anyways. My sister dated him a bit many years ago, so she was quite shocked as well. I mean he was a really good friend and great guy. He also really really liked me. Like wanted me as a gf kinda way but i was with his friend so he didnt go there. We hung out alot. But drifted apart with whatever has been going on in our lives ya know. I dunno im just in shock thats he gone. I read his obit online and ya know was sad. Then i found another one with his pic and that really did me in. I just cant believe it…Just wanted to share. None of my friends are online and my other forum is like a ghost town,so i figured ill try ya guys. Hope ya dont mind. Thanks.
- 07/04/2008 at 12:35 PM
  babybunsmum
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  (((((((((rascalnbinks))))))))) i’m so sorry for your loss. it’s quite disturbing to find out a friend has passed away. i hope you can find some peace soon.
- 07/04/2008 at 12:41 PM
  RascalnBinks
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  Thanks. Now im teary eyed again haha. Does it ever end.I called my bf and told him. Hes like well its not like i talked to him in a long time. WTH? You can still have some kinda emotion geez. That i dont get either. Hes like why are you crying over it? Then he starts with did he mean something more to you than a friend? Im like i dunno but either way im still sad! OMG. He can be so heartless. I probably wouldve been better off with my friend than him. He treated me better for sure.
- 07/04/2008 at 1:31 PM
  Beka27
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  i am so sorry! i wish your bf could be a little bit more sympathetic.
  
  i actually experienced something exactly like this several months ago. a friend of mine called me (someone i hadn’t even spoken to in a couple years) and she told me my ex-boyfriend had died. she didn’t really know any info, she just called to tell me. i had not seen him since… 2000 probably. we had dated a couple years before that. it wasn’t even serious… a few dates here and there. mostly hanging out with friends in a group setting (you know what it’s like when you’re 15 or 16 years old.) the whole relationship could not have lasted more than a few months total. but i had known him since i was 12. it hit me very hard. and my husband could not understand why. i found myself crying at night after he had gone to bed b/c i didn’t feel like getting criticised for being ridiculous or whatever. i found out that he had 3 children and a wife. and i felt so bad for them, it turns out he took his own life. i was remembering him as the 12 year old kid i knew many years before. and it took several weeks for me to be in my right mind again. even thinking about him now, it makes me so sad.
  
  please take the time you need to remember him. you have every right to grieve too. (((hugs!)))
- 07/04/2008 at 1:52 PM
  Kokaneeandkahlua
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  Men are good at some things …I’m sure something…maybe lifting? *rolls eyes* But sympathy is NOT one of the things they are good at. Try not to throw anything at your boyfriend’s head, at least nothing that could cause permanent brain damage
  
  That’s terrible news and it’s so sad to find out from the paper!! I’m so sorry for your loss. I bet his family would appreciate a note or a card, or even a call, if you knew them at all. I find when I’m grieving even random greetings from people I don’t know well really mean alot.
  
  *BIG HUGS TO YOU* Go have a chat with your sis, she’ll understand you better and you can tell funny/great stories about him-I’m sure that’ll help heal your heart!
- 07/04/2008 at 2:03 PM
  RascalnBinks
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  Thanks! Yeah sis is more sympathetic for sure haha. Okay ill try not to throw something at him. Or tie him to one of those bottle rockets tonite hehe. Yeah sis and I are gonna send them a card. My bf called back and said he told his mom. So his mom knew his parents so she called them. Neither sis or i knew rest of his family. So yeah from what his mom said,he just went to sleep on his boat and didnt wake up again. She also said it was his dream to have his own boat. So im glad he got his boat then. So Sorry Beka bout your old friend too. My sister talked to one of her friends from high school,he went to his funeral. He didnt know that we both were friends with him too or he wouldve told us. He actually got into an accident while in the funeral procession as someone was in a hurry and didnt feel like waiting for all the cars to pass. How rude! I mean it annoys me too if i see a looooong line of cars like that,but ya gotta think bout the families ya know. It could be your family in that procession next time. So yeah,ill grieve a bit and move on i guess. Way it goes. Sucks.
- 07/04/2008 at 7:29 PM
  RascalnBinks
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  hi anyone around? just want someone to talk to…i know its the 4th and all lol. Worth a shot. Thanks.
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