I personally don’t know if bonded pairs live longer than single buns but buns are social creatures and if you don’t have the time to dedicate to pourin’ on the love, a playmate might be in order. The only reason I decided on getting a partner for Maryann was that my schedule was becoming more and more hectic so I didn’t have the time to dedicate to just me and her. I figured getting her another bun would help keep her happy. It’s been a struggle but I think it will be worth it in the long run.
My place is rather tight to have two buns, and I don’t have unlimited finances. But I SERIOUSLY weighed these against my bun and decided that I could swing it.
Now, to answer a few of Miz’s questions:
1.) Will they even like each other, or will they fight? And if they do not bond, will they be territorial/unhappy with just my daughter and I as human companions, or…
2.) Will they wind up liking each other SO much they cannot stand to be separated for any length of time?
There are many who believe that any two buns can be bonded – it just will take time and dedication to do so. If I were you, I’d investigate into a professional bonding ‘company’. I can’t believe the results that I got from SaveABunny and they said that the results would have been twice as good if I brought them there in the first place. I suppose the main issue about getting a new bun is – are you willing to invest in the time to bond them. Also, after being bonded, the buns should not be seperated for any length of time. It isn’t that they cannot stand it but that the bond could begin to deteriorate between the two. When one needs to go to the vet, I take them both in the same carrier.
3.) Also, how likely is it that if one is ill, the other will become ill? (I worry about our two indoor cats and the one outdoor communicating diseases constantly!)
I would say anything bacterial or viral would spread to the other bun. But, since they’re indoor buns, catching a disease is a bit low on the risk table. However, most issues with buns (in my experience) have been related to digestion and that can be a stand alone situation.
4.) And finally, how do I help one cope with the loss of the other due to the inevitability of death?
The only way is through extra love and support. Remember that the living bun should spend some time with the dead one to realize that the other bun is gone. This greatly helps the bun in the greiving process. In addition, you could go on bunny dates. You may feel like you’re quickly replacing a loved one but it is often best for the other bun. You can grieve and love at the same time.