Ok- i know how to fix your problem.. my Fujoe was the same way. If you need some sort of inspiration read my thread “paint, plaster, oil based clay?..” you can search it, I started it about a year ago..
ok, it took my bunny about 7 weeks before he calmed down- so just letting you know that. he was totally aggressive and nippy. He would distroy everything in sight (seriously, look at that thread)
situation #1-
We had a few places that Fujoe wanted to go and would get REALLY aggresive- like in the bedroom, esp. under the bed. he would be there for hours!!! and he would growl and lunge and attack- really awful stuff. Anyway, we had to totally block off the bedroom. So he’s going to the shoe closet? then I suggest you totally bock it off. If he really wants to get in there, he will. And I wouldn’t be worried about him pooping and marking. My bunny LOVES leather (i know, odd) and he had chewed on a few boots, and I would KILL HIM if he went after any of my heels.. so just keep that stuff out of his reach. We need to make sure there are no shoes that we care about on the floor.
situation #2:
he likes to go into my room…. you need to block it off. I know, it’s odd. We can’t let Fujoe in the Bedroom or studo. We have pet gates up. One I found on the street and one I found at a thrift store (if you decide to go the pet gate way, make sure you get the metal wire ones– bunnies will chew through the plastic and wooden ones like nothing). It might sound harsh to block off the room, but the bunny won’t die or anything. My two bunnies have full range of the living room and dining room and they are fine. Also, think of it, he might think that the room is his and is like, “hey! how dare you kick me out of my room! *nip*!” just keep him out.
situation #3
I don’t really know how to deal with this one.. first of all.. don’t grab him. That’s a big no, no because he now sees you as a threat- your hand is doing a bad thing, therefore YOU are doing a bad thing. This might lead to him biting you when your peting him. You MIGHT be able to train him by saying NO loudly and then spriting him with a water bottle until he jumps off. After doing this a few times, you might be able to give him a treat when he jumps down by himself when you say NO. I have trained Fujoe to get out of the bathroom if he goes into it- we usally keep the door closed, but if I’m getting ready, I’ll have it open as I go from the bathroom to the bedroom… So I say, “Fujoe OUT, OUT, OUT..” The first like 2 dozen times I had to push him out with my foot (no grabbing, just nudging) and then he finally got it. I still have to give him a nudge every once and a while, but he gets the point.
So my theory is that, yes, it’s because you’re not letting him be in the spots he wants to be in- but by totally getting rid of the option of it, it might help. good luck. Let me know if you want to see pics of some ‘alternative’ pet gates.