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| 10/05/2012 04:20 AM |
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Hello Community,
I do not, nor have i ever, owned a rabbit. i had a guinea pig when i was little and of course lots of cats and dogs. i have been researching proper bunny care lately and here's why: i am watching a 10 year old girl after school for the past month or so. she got a bunny as a pet (added to an already full apartment of 1 dog 2 cats!) FOR EASTER. the problem is this rabbit is being NEGLECTED!! i don't know what to do other than sharing my new knowledge with the girl in hopes she might listen, but it's a bad situation. her mom is a single mom and fairly young...i heard from my sister (who works with her) that she just filed or is soon to file for bankruptcy. this rabbit (bun bun) is currently living on their porch/balcony (i don't believe there is a way for him/her to fall down or escape...it's been since easter) with a cage that i now realize is too small placed in an open recession in the wall. it's not a living cage- there's nothing in it but poop all over the bottom. his food and water are kept on the porch area - he is only fed pellety rabbit food as far as i can tell. i'm not surprised because this was obviously an indulgent purchase with no research. i honestly think they are simply ignorant of what to do and don't care enough on top of it. plus i am always bringing snacks for my charge as i can't see a drop of fresh produce anywhere - for the CHILD let alone the rabbit! one time they ran out of cat food and were giving them giant dog food bits for a few days. it's a total mess, but i am just the part-time after school sitter. i can't fix their financial situation...i can't really order them to surrender their bunny. i had nightmares about this bunny's welfare, it's really eating at my conscience. i was thinking i could try implementing some homemade utilities like a cardboard litterbox with newspaper? would that work? bun doesn't even have a chewing apparatus - he was chewing a wooden chair! i told her to give him cardboard and she says they have none... and yes....they keep him outside at nighttime. that probably wasn't an issue spring/summer temp wise, but it is getting cold where we live. his sleeping area is squeezed inside the closet in a nook somewhere, but there is no actual bed for him. i thought i could get my charge to help me clean the poop out of the cage, move it out of the closet (it's serving no purpose other than a toilet) and at least lay down blankets? if i can't convince them to bring him in soon...though i don''t know what's worse. at least he can move freely around the porch - that cage is NOT BIG ENOUGH! i don't know how often they let him in to run about. she did not rabbit-proof the room or keep him in eye line. i was running about checking on him.
Does anyone have any advice? if not what to do permanently, at least some little things i could afford to implement myself to make him any amount more comfortable. i was going to bring some greens for him today - it says this should be introduced gradually at 3 months of age?
thank you all for reading,
sincerely,
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 RobertaWanneroo, Western Australia
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| 10/05/2012 05:35 AM |
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Are you in a position to offer to adopt the rabbit and do you think the Mother would be relieved and accept or be offended? That would be the best solution but people aren't always willing to admit they are not up to a task. At 3 months he will be reaching puberty and he is going to start to spray and will need to be desexed, if left he might also become aggressive especially if food is in short supply. Possibly offer to buy the bunny from them especially if the little girl does not want to spend the time with him now he is growing. He will need hay, vet care, fresh greens proper housing, grooming and room to exercise. I am sure the others will also have some good ideas but some of them may not come back on line for a little while so don't think you are being ignore if it takes a few hours for others to respond. |
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| 10/05/2012 06:01 AM |
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thank you so much for your prompt reply! unfortunately, there's no way i could take the rabbit off their hands. i live in an apartment with my dad and dog, and i've been begging my dad to let me adopt a cat for a year. he just gets angry and he's right, i need to wait until i have my own place and enough to support myself first. i am afraid they would react in offense most likely (the mom probably WOULD be relieved though, yet offended. the kid claims to love the bunny, but honestly she seems disinterested to me.) i have no idea if it's male or female and neither does the child ("we can't tell yet cus it's too young" ???) she thinks it's a girl though... she got it for easter (which in itself would make a person ill at the thought!) so it's at least ...6 months? on top of everything else i told you, i don't think this rabbit is getting the love and socialization it needs. when she let it inside it seemed not afraid but disinterested in petting and people. it went behind the couch and tried to burrow under the carpet/wall area. i had it in my head that a delicate social creature like a rabbit may turn aggressive and weird if left in such isolation, no? i'll try my best. thank you again. if worse comes to worst i could talk them into surrendering it to a shelter nearby (or ask them advice.) there's a no-kill shelter annex in our local mall, though i know they don't accept drop-off animals (only through main shelter) they might make exception for a rabbit. i would be afraid he/she might just be euthanized if i take it to a normal shelter... |
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 tobyluvSouth Carolina
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| 10/05/2012 06:04 AM |
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I agree with Roberta. If you are willing and able to take the bunny, you can offer to adopt or buy him and tell the owners how fond you are of him and would love to take him home with you. Or if you knew of a rabbit savvy person who actually did want a rabbit, you could mention to the owners that you have a friend who wanted a rabbit or a companion for her rabbit, and would they be willing to give or sell their bunny to this person. You can speak about the costs involved with having rabbits and what they need for proper feeding, care and housing if you think they would listen to you and heed your advice. But if they are adamant about keeping the bunny, hopefully you can better his living conditions and provide him with good quality hay, veggies and pellets. |
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 tobyluvSouth Carolina
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| 10/05/2012 06:10 AM |
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I just saw your post where you said you are unable to take the rabbit, so that's out, and you didn't mention knowing anyone who would provide a good home for the rabbit, so I guess that's out too. If you do know of some rescues or no kill shelters, they are a possibility, but they are often full. Rabbits don't usually fare well in regular shelters (humane societies).
If the rabbit is 6 months old, he/she can definitely have greens. You could start with romaine lettuce, or kale or parsley, or any of the dark leafy greens. There are lists of good veggies here and on the House Rabbit website.
If it is a male and 6 months old, you should be able to see testicles by now.
I know this poor bunny is a worry for you. I hope that he can go to a better home, or have his living conditions improved. |
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| 10/05/2012 06:42 AM |
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thank you toby. it's such a hard situation because i'm already using some of my dad's food stores to bring snacks for her kid! i don't have much money either (which i why i don't have a pet of my own.) the child has some friends who live in an apartment in the same complex. they seem like huge animal lovers, and very thoughtful, gentle children. they may be willing to take bun, however i'll def have to brainstorm how to bring that subject up... i know this kind of thing happens all the time and is a huge problem, but i've never come quite so face to face with animal neglect. i didn't even realize at first that it WAS neglect (A. i didn't know zilch about rabbits and B. i didn't want to admit to what i was really seeing. at first i thought it was odd they keep him outside, but not until it's gotten colder and he's still out there did i really start balking.) this kid has obviously not been raised properly and may also be being neglected in ways. as i mentioned, they have no food in the house that i feel a child should have. she's alone a lot (her mom works two jobs. her dad is now in jail for neglecting his younger child from a different mother, so he is absentee... i am telling you, it's a problem on top of problems for these people. why they keep investing in animals, i don't know...) i saw her hit her spaniel dog on the head once and i chided her, so she doesn't have a fundamental understanding of how to treat animals from the get go. i look forward to having my own kids so i can raise them to be responsible people.
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 Beka27Cleveland, Ohio (USA)
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| 10/05/2012 06:59 AM |
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Wow, there are so many different factors being mentioned in this thread. As stated, the major problem is that you can't take the rabbit in. Shelters are overrun and they don't typically have space, so a shelter would most likely not be an option. The only way I would bring anything up to the mother is if you were able to take the rabbit permanently, or even short-term until you could find a him new home.
I would be hesitant about providing fresh veggies since the rabbit would only be getting them sporadically, and if he reacts badly, you have no way to check up on him, and I doubt they'd take him to the vet. A better investment would be fresh grass hay, and just hope they feed it everyday.
The other option would be to talk to the mother, tell her that you think her bunny is so sweet and if they ever decide to "get rid of" him, to let you know because you'd love to have him. This plants the seed in her head that she could have an "out" if needed WITHOUT criticizing their care. When/if it happens that she's willing to surrender the rabbit to you, at that point you could take him and just "deal with" your father's annoyance; at least you'd know the rabbit was out of that situation. Maybe not the best and most honest way to go about things, but it would serve it's purpose. Then you would just need to talk to your father and explain that you're looking for a new home, etc... and that having him is just temporary. You may even find an animal lover friend who is willing to house him and you maybe split costs for the rabbit. |
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| 10/05/2012 07:55 AM |
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This is a horrible situation -- but the bun is lucky that at least SOMEONE is making an effort to care about him/her. I would have to agree with Beka about the veggies. The most important thing for him right now is to have grass. Maybe you can also bring to the attention of the mother -- that by now, you can definitely tell whether the bun is a boy or girl and that if it's a girl she NEEDS to be spayed. Girls that aren't spayed have an 80% chance of getting uterine cancer. An added vet cost may, along with your proposal to take the bun (and find it a proper home) may be the nudge this lady needs to get the bun out of her care. It's so sad when animals aren't being cared for properly... |
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 Sam and Lady's Human
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| 10/05/2012 08:35 AM |
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Wow there is a lot, so I'm only going to touch on the bunny part. I know its not an option to bring her home, but have you talked to your parents about it? What would they think of you fostering and searching for a new home with the promise of dropping it off at a shelter after say, 4 months if you can't find one? That way it does give the bunny a chance, as a minor it teaches you some responsibility without putting much on your parents, and I'd say that it gives the rescue/shelter a couple months to get the bunny altered, recovered along with whatever other needs it has just in time to hopefully be adopted out by easter (to again, hopefully a better home!) |
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| 10/05/2012 06:20 PM |
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I like the idea of trying to find the rabbit a new home. You would need to tread carefully though, so you don't offend the mother or anything. It is possible though that she would be relieved. In the meantime, does the rabbit have a litter box? I didn't see you mention it anywhere, but I may have missed it. The best thing that you could do for him is to create a clean place for him to sit. He needs a litter box with an appropriate litter and a clean flat surface (no litter, no mesh flooring). If you need to, you can use cardboard to cover up any mesh flooring. Can you bring cardboard from your own home? You could use it to make a little house for him too. Having access to hay is more important than veggies. I agree with Beka about the veggies. Giving them to him here and there isn't a good idea. Plus I would worry about him getting used to all this great stuff, only to have it suddenly disappear if you were no longer looking after this girl. |
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| 10/06/2012 01:59 AM |
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thanks for all the replies everyone. yesterday actually i got up the gumption to say something to the kid, though unfortunately she was already in a very grumpy mood. she seemed unresponsive about it and a bit defensive. but then without saying anything she grabbed her poop shovel and headed onto the porch to clean up his area. i helped her (a lot. there was so much poop. and a blanket drenched in poop and pee. we ended up tossing most of it over the balcony to throw away, thank glob.) it was a lot of work - the floor is like a wooden barn floor so it's hard to wash. we got rid of the cage (she said it was an old puppy cage and they had another one downstairs) and filled the area with a soft blanket. i used a shoebox with newspaper in it and put a bit of her poop in there because it's all i had and could think of. i hope she doesn't soil the blanket because there are few resources here. i examined the food and they were giving it adult rabbit food (blend of fruits, nuts, pellets and timothy hay) now they are giving it a wildlife formula with mostly seeds! it's actually FOR wild animals. poor B (the kid) finally said to me, in a defensive way, "i want her to come in, i do want her to be happy" her mom got the rabbit from some friend who has a lot of outdoor rabs and told her they could viably live outdoors! there ya go! ignorance breeds ignorance. she asked her at work if she could move the rabbit inside (i really galvanized her into action) but the mom said "the bunny is fine" ???? i think there's a little confusion about my own situation. i am not a minor. i'm living with my dad (not both parents) while i save a little money and look into graduate school...so yeah, i'm an adult. which makes the idea of sneaking a rabbit into my dad's place even worse because it's his place (after the recent stress of divorce from my mother) and i'm just living here temporarily getting help and not paying rent. he's already doing me huge favors here. it might even push him over the edge and get me kicked out. plus i don't have money to support this creature, i can't even support myself on my own. (that's why i would never get one in the first place, not right now anyway!) the mom did not seem mad when she got home and saw our changes, or that i was butting my nose in, so that's good. i'm just afraid they probably won't maintain it. i did feed the rabbit a few carrots, which he at first refused, but then ate, before i read that you don't thin k i should... i may be reading too much into it, but he showed no interest in my fresh veggies (for awhile) or piece of apple, and he rubbed on the cardboard and gnawed a bit, but then had no interest. i mostly brought it as a gnawing object. he also did not seem to WANT to come inside and run around! the advice i implored was mostly regarding how i might add a bit of care while i am there (though i guess that wouldn't help in the long run) and about addressing the issue with the mom. i can always have my sister talk to the mom as they are friends. i'll keep working at it. thanks! |
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 Beka27Cleveland, Ohio (USA)
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| 10/06/2012 03:01 AM |
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Do you have a public library nearby (and does the girl have a library card)? If you can take her to the library to pick out rabbit care "starter" books (again using HER card) that might encourage her to read about rabbits and at least get some baseline, age-appropriate knowledge. When I was young, I always enjoyed learning about different pets (this has obviously followed me into adulthood, not everyone joins pet care forums). I feel like if you could increase HER interest in the rabbit, maybe SHE could prod her mom into providing some better food, litter, etc... Worst case scenario, if you could get some inexpensive grass hay and maybe provide old newspapers and teach her to take care of the cage that would help the rabbit. Rabbits are resilient. They *can* live outside in a protected space and they can adapt to less than ideal care. When you're on a site like BB, we are providing (and encouraging others to provide) the gold standard of rabbit care, but I know there are many more rabbits receiving much less. If you can help implement some small changes, that would at least be something. |
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 BBSan Francisco Area
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| 10/06/2012 08:14 PM |
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I think that you are handling this very well. Since you can't take the bunny in yourself (and doubt they would give the bunny up anyway right now --- but don't be surprised that in a year from now, that if things don't change, they'll be looking for an out.). But right now, the best thing you can do is do what you are doing and little by little begin to offer more and more help. I was in a similar situation with client of my husband's and I had to proceed carefully. Could you print out some pages from the net? You can use this site, or rabbit.org (if you haven't seen that site -it's a great resource) This is a great little booklet just for kids who are caring for bunnies http://www.sandiegorabbits.org/adop...orbook.pdf It's meant to be a coloring book, but it doesn't have to be a coloring book -- it's just a good resource of information written FOR KIDS. Just ease yourself in like you are doing, and hopefully slowly but surely, you will be able to provide a better life for the bunny with this family and maybe even they will form a bond. But if not, then I can almost bet that they will look at you as a resource and the day will come when they may ask if you know someone who wants a bunny, and that can be your move to help them find another home if it looks like that is going to be the best choice in the future. Thank you for getting involved. The fact that you have never owned a rabbit, but already have some of the basics down, is wonderful. You have a big heart and maybe both the bunny and the child will benefit from what you have to offer this situation. |
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| 10/08/2012 11:52 AM |
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Thank you Beka and BB, your replies were very helpful (and also very sweet!) I have some good news on this front. Since being gone over the weekend, the rabbit used the makeshift litterbox that we put in his closet area!! i was so excited, i honestly thought i'd find a totally soiled blanket. the only problem was i didn't have much paper to put in it and the urine soaked through the box... i also let bun out to run around and was discouraged that indoors, he pooped and peed outside of the litterbox/newspaper area i set up. i figure he just doesn't think of it as his home turf so he doesn't know where to go. the second time though, he pooped AND peed on the paper! i was so proud. but then he pooped off the paper again... do you think he gets the concept? or maybe going on the paper was not intentional. same issue though of the pee soaking through the paper into the carpet. and the pee smells awful - the poop is actually so easy to clean up, not messy or smelly at all. it's just he poops so much. i'll get it all cleaned up and then he does more! that's herbivores for you i guess.
i laid down the facts with the kid and i told her "if your mom refuses to let him in for the winter, you need to see if you can find someone to take him in." i told her he probably would die if left out in winter...maybe that was a bit harsh, but she needs to be galvanized soon. it was very cold today, in the forties/fifties, and it's only october. she assured me she wouldn't let that happen, though she also said her mom told her the bunny could not come inside even when it becomes winter...that was shocking to me, as this lady is a good person at heart and i know she loves her other animals. i'm thinking that the mom doesn't think of a pet rabbit as equivalent to a dog or cat - in terms of needs and care and love. she thinks "the bunny is fine." all it takes is a simple google search! the mom says the rabbit smells bad and wouldn't use a litter box inside (she probably was trying to get it to use the catbox, i would suspect.)
i'm happy though because the rabbit has really perked up a lot. he seems to want to hang out around us and is running around more, having a good time, likes to interact with the cat and dog. he kept trying to chew on my boot (that i was wearing at the time!) he does this funny thing where he jumps and spasmodically kicks his legs (i was assuming it's just a cute quirk and not an indication of injury.) i think i'm starting to love him actually do you guys have advice on the pee front? just more newspaper? i went around to neighbors with her to find old newspaper and it wasn't very lucrative. i bet puppy pee pads would be effective, but that would require buying some! she was talking about clearing out her closet and keeping him in there for winter, which i guess is better than naught, though could lead to a ruined carpet and destruction, right? |
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| 10/08/2012 12:04 PM |
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beka, is there a suggestion for where to purchase cheap grass hay? also, thank you for your advice, it's already working. B seems very perked up on the subject of her rabbit - she was practically begging me to take her around asking for newspaper and suggesting ways to keep him inside. she seems to be absorbing the info i share very well. i think there's just been a little misguidance in how she has grown up (she was wanting to buy stuff she doesn't need from a jewelry shop and a new sparkly wallet, even though rabbit needs basic things.) she doesn't know how to put more important things ahead of her extraneous wants. plus i don't think her mom has explained their financial situation to her very well, because the kid seems to have a big spender kind of attitude....
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 zoologistOrlando, Fl
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| 10/08/2012 12:39 PM |
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When a bunny jumps and spasmodically kicks its legs in the air we call that a binky. It means that the bunny is SUPER happy! It's an awesome thing when they binky  |
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| 10/08/2012 01:56 PM |
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ha! i had no idea! so that's where the binky bunny name comes from...that only makes it that much more adorable  it also kind of makes my heart feel warm that i may have contributed to his binky  |
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 IsabellaRobynScotland
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| 10/08/2012 02:58 PM |
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I've been following this thread and I'm so glad you are helping them out. Sometimes I wish you could just slap people in the face and tell them what they are doing is basically neglecting their animals! If I were you I would be giving her a real telling but I understand that you're not really in the position to do that. I'll keep reading all your updates! Sounds like some good stuff is happening on your end if the little one is doing binkies and everything!  |
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 RobertaWanneroo, Western Australia
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| 10/08/2012 03:24 PM |
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Personally I find the Free Local Newspaper on the racks in the local shopping centre is an excellent source of paper. I usually lurk through on Saturday and grab a fist full. Next time you are out and about check out the corner shops, malls etc. There is usually a free news publication of some sort that no one will object to you taking a dozen copies or so. The pee'ing is possibly an age and or territory thing. Note the spot he does it most and put the litter tray there and see if he uses it more often. As to the girl, well, I think any little girl with cash to burn and an eye for bling is always going to put the shiny pretty stuff first but eventually you might be able to get her to split the priority. It would be especially difficult if she is not use to having much and considers these sorts of comfort acquisitions as a way of improving her life. (We've all been there) |
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 LittlePuffyTailNew Brunswick, Canada
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 Beka27Cleveland, Ohio (USA)
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| 10/09/2012 03:15 AM |
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I will say that I know ADULTS who put the "shiny bling" in front of, not only their pets, but oftentimes their HUMAN children: "Yes, you have two kids in diapers, but you should go get a mani/pedi. That's a good use of $60." *rolls eyes* As far as hay, the cheapest option you'll find will be farm, horse-quality hay. You can typically get a bale for under $10. The issue is storage. This is a BALE of hay, and bales expand once opened. Or if you have feed stores nearby, you might be able to buy a smaller, more manageable quantity. It is entirely possible/likely that his pooping and peeing is territorial marking. They mark their space, especially when unaltered. This is the next issue. Litter-training can be difficult when rabbits are not neutered. This is not something that most people are aware of, but when we are all talking about our "free-roam house rabbits", in 95% of cases, these rabbits are spay/neutered. The other issue, especially with males, is that their urine can be pungent, very musky and stinky, when not neutered. I don't doubt that the mom thinks the rabbit smells bad. I have smelled unneutered male bunnies and they do smell bad. BUT, I am not thinking that neutering is something she is willing to have done, and you don't have the means (or the right/responsibility) to do this yourself. So the bun is going to be stinky and may not have perfect litter habits. You've reached sort of an impasse. |
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| 10/09/2012 03:40 AM |
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BeccaLovesMichy -
First, let me say that I think its AWESOME that you have stepped up to help out this bunny/family combo - I think they will be surprised at how much personality a bunny has when he's in an optimum environment!
As for a cheap alternative for a litter pan - if you (or the mom) could come up with about $15, they could have a very nice set up (as shown below) that would really cut down on the odor and help immensely with the bun's litter habits....
I don't know where you are located, or if you even have access to these items, but if you can find a place to get these. The prices I list are particular to the Midwest, so that depends on where you are located.....
Plastic dish pan - $1 at a dollar store
Plastic canvas - $2 at a craft store - and can be cut with regular scissors to fit inside the plastic dish pan
40-lb bag of wood fuel pellets at a Tractor Supply store - $5
Small square bale of hay, horse quality - approx $5
Take the dish pan, pour in a 1/2-inch layer of wood pellets. Cut the plastic canvas to fit inside, and put that in on top of the pellets. Then put a handful of hay spread out on top of the plastic canvas.
The bunny will love to go into the litter pan to eat the hay, and will poo and pee in there while he's in there. Each day, you can lift out the plastic grade and dump the hay/poo. Then use a plastic cup of some kind to scoop out the peed-on pellets - you will be able to tell where he peed, cuz the pellets break down to sawdust and absorb the pee. Once you have all the sawdust clumps scooped out, add some more pellets to have an even layer, put the plastic canvas back down over it, and put in another handful of hay. Repeat the next day.
Some people will say that the wood fuel pellets are bad because they are chemically treated - but since the rabbit never touches the pellets, you should be okay. Before my Roscoe was neutered, I had to change the box every day, but now that he's neutered, the smell isn't as bad, so I can usually change the box every other day.
I don't know if it's an option or if the $15 is something either of you can come up with, but just thought I'd describe what has worked in our household.....
EDITED TO ADD: Also wanted to add that an unaltered rabbit will still probably have "accidents" or marking episodes, and will most likely still leave poo pellets around to mark territory, but you might get lucky (like I was) and at least have a bunny that would pee only in the litter box. Ya never know! |
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| 10/09/2012 04:02 AM |
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actually you'd be surprised. there's clearly a reason this person has filed for bankruptcy, and it's because she's been spending beyond her means...i feel to a certain extent for them, but getting all these pets (recently too. i don't know if it was a tall tale but B told me her mom got her cat chloe for her as a .......valentine's gift. what the heck?! my mom got us a card and a tiny snoopy box of chocolates! and i thought that was a lot for a greeting card holiday ) the cat is also unfixed, though is always indoors praise the lord, and now that i know this it makes sense because she's always going nuts. they, of course, seem to cut spending in the oddest places. there were several different instances where a dictionary, gluestick, and calculator were needed for homework/learning and there weren't any. yet she has a nintendo DS, cable (not basic), and a kindle. now what is a child who exhibits extreme resistance towards reading going to do with a kindle on her own? i've never seen her touch it. we have a perfectly huge library in this town that is nearby - as to beka's advice, i'd probably have to get a library card for/with her.
there is one area he/she chooses to go to the bathroom in. i got him to go on the paper once, but for some reason though he'll use the cardboard "litter box" in his living space, but won't get in it in the house. thanks for the advice on the free newspaper, i think that's a great idea! (as per the sex of the rabbit, i honestly don't notice any testicles there...but the urine does stink to high heaven, though the rabbit itself smells fine! )
ps. thank you to you and everyone else for listening to me rant about this situation (not just the rabbit part.) it seems lame, but that's a big reason i came on here, to let loose and commiserate about how strange and unpleasant this whole living situation is for this family... |
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 Beka27Cleveland, Ohio (USA)
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| 10/09/2012 04:08 AM |
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It's not lame at all. You have a big heart but limited resources and rights to this rabbit. You're doing a great job at least doing something. Maybe just do what you can for a year and see what's different in their life and yours. |
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| 10/09/2012 04:13 AM |
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thank you very much, littlepuffy! i have a great deal of concern for animals in general. i have already tried to plant good things in this girl's head (pet stores/puppy mills are evil, it's bad to breed your pets, you should not disturb nature - she wanted to bring a woolly caterpillar in as a pet.) she impishly admitted she had thoughts of "getting a boy cat for chloe." this kind of mentality needs to be squelched immediately!!!
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| 10/09/2012 04:15 AM |
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thank you, isabellarobyn! it's nice to know people are supporting! it's so funny to find out that binkies are a "thing" with rabbits lol i thought he was just being silly on his own
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 bullrider76543Joplin MO
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| 10/09/2012 04:28 AM |
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wow I am sorry I am just catching up on this post. but WOW!! there is a lot going on, all I can say keep caring like you do!!! I respect your drive!! |
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Rabbits will rule the world!!!!  |
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| 10/09/2012 05:30 AM |
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thank you thank you! this site has been of much help and affirmation for me that i'm doing the right things. as far as i can see it there are two options for this lady and neither one will end well for her. option 1: force her child to give away her rabbit, after purchasing it for her in the first place and then taking it away. result: child is sad and angry at mom, but rabbit is (hopefully) safer and happier. plus they don't have the responsibility anymore. option 2: mom forces child to keep rabbit outside during freezing cold temperatures. result: rabbit drops dead or catches ill and, without vet care, dies. child is sad (possibly traumatized) and mad at mom for forcing rabbit outside only to die. the only difference between these scenarios is that rabbit is alive and well in one and sick and dying/dead in the other. i can talk to them and try to help them out, but the most frustrating thing is that i can't make them CARE. now i have one more question for now: is my assumption accurate that bun will get sick and die if left out in a closet on the porch with no other heat during the entire winter? or do you guys think he might pull through in a worst case scenario such as that? |
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| 10/09/2012 05:40 AM |
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wow theresa, that is a great idea, thank you. you do end up with poopy hay though, right? that you just throw away? and how does the plastic stay clean from the pee (how does the pee get to the pellet part with the plastic in between?)...do you need to rinse it off when you change the box??? i wasn't sure if we were supposed to say where we live according to the site rules, but i live in upstate new york. it gets COLD here! but i'm sure i could find all those things.
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| 10/09/2012 05:56 AM |
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Becca -
The "plastic canvas" is actually a plastic grid with small square holes, so the pee goes right through. And yeah, you do end up with poop and hay mixed together, so you have to throw it away. But it's just a handful a day, so cost effective. If the thought of the two grosses you out, you can just put the hay at one end of the box or hang a hay rack over it. I've just found that my bun prefers to sit on top of his hay in his litter box. Some say it protects their feet from getting sore standing on the grid. I don't rinse off the plastic every day unless it's really soiled, but I do soak both the box and the plastic grid in hot water/white vinegar once a week.
If you're in upstate NY, it might cost you a bit more than the prices I've shown. My sis lives in upstate NY on a farm/ranch, I will ask her what hay costs up there right now and get back to you.
There is a great video on Youtube that shows the whole litter set up and cleaning set up that I just described. Bet you could search for "bunny litter box cleaning" or something like that and find it....
My bun is a Flemmie - a really big rabbit - so the dish pan was too small. I had to get an under-bed box at Walmart instead, which cost me $4....
EDITED TO ADD: Sis says small bale of hay in upstate NY (north of Saratoga) is about $4 a bale right now - if that helps at all. |
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