I’m Jealous!

[Sonn]

 I am so jealous of how my mom is getting along with Marshmallow! 

I took care of the little stinker when she almost died not mom! Mom wanted to give her away more than once. But now the little toad when I come in the fabulous bunny room and say “Come here mellow” she just looks at me and my mom can say “Come here mellow baby” and she just hops right over and into my mom’s lap. 

And yes I am sitting here pouting LOL 

I think I did the right thing…. I hope I did the right thing it feels right but I feel really guilty at the same time especially when I look in on Pacey and he is sitting there tossing a willow ball around all by himself 

[mocha200]

did they used to be bonded?

[Monkeybun]

Might have to take Pacey dating after the trial run then, eh?

[Deleted User]

Are you more jealous of your mom or of Marshmallow?

[Sonn]

LOL I am jealous that she took up with my mom so fast. But it is a good jealous if that make sense.

If the trial run goes well Pacey will definitely be going bunny dating again. But this time it will be many sessions if he likes a bunny.

Pacey and Marshmallow have a love hate relationship they loved each other then Marshmallow had some medical issues and she tried to kill him all of the time. Then they kind of liked each other then started all out fighting. And this last time they would be ok with each other they would run around with one another and stuff like that but refused to eat together or share a cage or water or anything. So I just made it to where they were separate other than playtime. Now they have a common area they can come to anytime to play together for now.

[MimzMum]

My three are all separate, but I hope to join them eventually since they do seem to want to spend time with one another, their curiosity about each other is palpable.
Before Fiver came along however, Mimzy and Pip were beginning a bond. Then Mimzy developed his nasal problems and I had to separate them when we we just about at the finish line…plus my daughter was equivocating taking Pip back (I had taken her from her because she wasn’t really keeping Pip clean enough and kept poor bun up late at night with her insomnia). I think the two of them, when Mimzy is all better, may just be able to have a relationship again, but if not I’m pretty sure Fiver is willing to step in and he and Mimzy can be best buds. One way or the other though, it needs to happen because I think Mimzy is depressed at not having somebun to snuggle with.

Poor Pacey. Seeing that cute little ball of fluff playing all by himself would bring tears to anyone’s eyes. He is so precious! Hey! Toss the willow ball to me, Pacey! *waves hands*
I can guess how steamed your broccoli must be over your mom though…jeez…I’d have smoke coming out of my ears…lol. But hey, as long as they love one another…it can’t be all bad?

[Sonn]

I have insomnia as well but lucky for the buns they do not share my bedroom or they would never sleep lol

I went in the room a few minutes ago and was rolling the ball to him so he could throw it hehe my little fuzz ball

No it is actually great for both my mom and Marshmallow so I just have to deal lol

[Monkeybun]

Pacey is adorable.. if it works out well with Marshmellow and your mom, make sure to get him an equally adorable friend

[jerseygirl]

I took care of the little stinker when she almost died not mom! Mom wanted to give her away more than once. But now the little toad when I come in the fabulous bunny room and say “Come here mellow” she just looks at me and my mom can say “Come here mellow baby” and she just hops right over and into my mom’s lap.

Lol. Has you’re Mom ever trimmed her nails though? Yeah, you’re the person whose done everything for her but that includes nails and gland cleans. Chances are Mellow hasn’t forgotten that!  Wwatch carefully your Mom isn’t overtreating Mellow. You dont want your efforts for her to lose weight going down the drains. I guess you don’t want your Mom introduced to the joys of poopy butt either! 

[Sonn]

Lol I showed her how to clip her nails and she did them all except the paw I did. Marshmallow bit her hard and she barely flinched and kept going. Gland cleaning I won’t even do the vet has that pleasure did it once and never ever ever again!

I am watching her very carefully with the treats I would have to hurt her if she made Mellow look the way she used to!

[Sonn]

It’s done lol I am going tomorrow to put Marshmallow in my mom and stepdad’s names at the vet…. Kind of sad but I knew it was time when I went in with Pacey for playtime and she went into an attack frenzy but as soon as my mom left the room to get some new skin for a tiny little cut on him she snuggled up next to him. But as soon as she came back in she actually growled at me and went and sat in my mom’s lap. So yeah I don’t think there is even a small chance I would risk trying to bond them again.

Or attempt to take her from my mom when it seems like she has created some kind of super bond with her. I took her out of my mom’s part of the house just to see what she would do now that she has been over there for a couple of days. And she hopped around for a few minutes and got some pets and a treat then went and stood by the door thing and thumped until I opened it and hopped all the way to her room and into her cage.

Still kind of sad for both me and Pacey not sure how long I will wait before getting another bun for him. I have been taking him to my friends house who has rabbits that he likes and to the shelter where there are a few rabbits he likes to play with so that helps some.

It’s weird but I feel like a horrible person like I kicked her out of my life or something even though I know she is super happy where she is now.

[mocha200]

don’t feel bad… i think you did the right thing

[MimzMum]

Wow, Mallow…Jekyl & Hyde much? 0_o
That is so weird that she swings to extremes like that. *scratches head* Yeah, it must feel strange to have done it, but I also think you’ve done the right thing.
I wish them all the best together!

[Sonn]

Lol those are almost the exact words my mom said!

It has me very puzzled one minute she is fine but the second my mom comes in the room she just like flips this switch. And she was definitely NOT like this in my part of the house. Yes she would have days where she would not be allowed near Pacey but she wouldn’t quite try to eat him and would not have ever growled at me.

I don’t know what the deal is but as long as she is happy that is all I care about. But now even though I take him every time I go to the shelter to play with some bunnies when we are home all Pacey does is sit in his room and either throw some toys or just stare at me from the doorway. My mom said I should start trying to find another bunny for him but I am cautious to say the least.

Like what if it turns out to be another Marshmallow situation (not the mom stealing her part LOL) but the one minute everything is fine and the next I am having to pen the other bun up because all I see is Pacey hair flying everywhere?

And I am moving out of my mom’s house next week. Granted it is only across the yard to an almost identical house and completely spontaneous I don’t even have time to pack all of my junk lol. But still…

[jerseygirl]

Pacey will get lots of one on one time with you for the time being. Looks like he’s going to have some adjusting to do moving also. I was going to say make sure you sneak in and get pics of Mallow else we’ll be missing her. Thank goodness your not moving too far away!

[Sonn]

Lol I will definitely still be taking pics of Mellow whenever I can she may not be my bun anymore but she is still the little butt that threw hay onto my ceiling fan lol

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